seriously depressing

[preggoblues]

I never had my mom in my life. Long story short woman literally tries to ruin my life. Tells people my business acts like she cares or talks to me but behind everyyones back she sneakily will text me yyour evil I hate u ur a waste and all this psycho stuff. Now shea trying to tell everone about my pregnancy when she's not even calling me to see if I'm ok if I take my vitaminns if I need anything u knoe a mom does. Yet, she's telling everyone she has a grandchild, and seriously its making me more and more sad. I'm revolving my life around keeping myself private and its tking so much out of me..  everyone says ignore her but I can't imagine having a baby and wanting the worst for her?

[Ashdub07]

Move and change your # and start fresh. Sometimes what we need is a fresh, brand new beginning! :) I hope the best for you, lady!

[Maygan55]

Really its prolly better that way for ur baby..

[preggoblues]

Oh yes, but my grandparents back her up 100 % which I don't get. No matter what a kid isn't wrong of course I'm not a child but I'm an innocennt party and they stick by her. Its a family divide and I'm always shunned. Now its not just me but my baby who will never meet those jerks ugh

[preggoblues]

Thanks alot

[preggoblues]

Thanks alot

[tomorrow264]

Has she ever been seen by a doctor for mental health issues? It sounds like she has some issues she needs to work out. Sorry you have to deal with all her craziness.

[GordonBaby]

Yeah it ***** but you can do it...

[preggoblues]

Its just a ****** situation. I hope things get better, not just for me but so that my daughter is always happy. I have no choice but to be better than her, so failure isn't an option

[GordonBaby]

You can...believe me. Mind over matter

[preggoblues]

Yea.. I really just needed to vent. Making this pregnancy harder than it needs to be. I'm praying that I can handle the stress after

[GordonBaby]

Exactly

[preggoblues]

Yea your right. Its too much I just need to let go. I feel ill always carry it with me but I'm planning on moving so that it wont be so much of a burden. I can't let this control my life bc then, she wins

[GordonBaby]

TOo much energy wasted on someone who doesn't deserve it. You will be a much better mother because you know what its like for your mother to half a$$ be there for you. You cant pick and choose who your family is...unfortunately. Nor can you control what others do. You can only control what you do

[preggoblues]

I don't even know you guys and the kindness just brings tears to my eyes. ThankS. I know what needs to be done but strangers love me more than her and that hurts. I want to be my daughters everything and I'm just worried maybe I wont be as good of a mom bbc mine is so s***** and when she dies I'm going to be consumed with all this anger bc she had her whole life to be there for me. She chooses strngers over me as If I'm horrible idk.. I just don't understand.. turns mmy own family against me :( ugh

[babywhalen2]

Ya know hon, shes just not worth all that hate...it is only making it harder on you. Time to let go, and forgive so you can go on with your new life with baby. Just think years down the road when your baby comes to you saying someone is being mean, how you will be able to tell them how good it feels to forgive, be the bigger person and move on. Its not gonna be easy, but your only letting her hurt you more by holding onto all of it. You are strong...you can do it, and you will be an amazing mommy.

[preggoblues]

She's cut, my baby has grandparents who will never hurt her but here I am with this tie to a woman I hate.. literally hate. And hatinng someone takes so much energy. Id almost want to forgive her to take my pain away

[GordonBaby]

Sometimes you have to distance yourself. If she says these horrid things then I personally wouldn't want her around. She clearly has left the impression on you. Just be done with her. She sounds selfish....wants others to think shs this great person but in reality shes kinda shady and s***ty. When she ca act like an adult, then she can be around, but I would stear clear for awhile.