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sex drive lost???

I seriously do not get horny at all. A few time I do but me and my boyfriend can go a week with out doing anything and when I say no he gets so frustrated and tells me I'm being selfish. He asked me if I wasn't attracted to him but honestly I am. I love him and every inch of him. I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone else. I just don't get into the mood and it makes him so angry.... has anyone else had this happen to them???
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Don't feel bad I got really nauseous and my sex drive hit a huge nose dive to the point where it caused a lot of fighting between us but I got some nausea medicine and it looks like things maybe picking up its all about comfort. Men aren't very understanding when it comes to pregnancy I'm sure you'll feel better soon he just needs to respect that pregnancy is difficult and you need to feel better first.
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My sex drive definitely did not come back second trimester. Before pregnancy it was really high, now its pretty much nonexisting. I hope it goes back to normal once my little babe is here.
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Yip same here with preg no.2 (now on 4) I didn't want him near me at all just try reassure him and it will pick up once baby's born honest :) you gotta do what ur body's telling u. Until the day men can do it they will just have to take a back seat and wait lol
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Oh yea same here no matter how hard he tries I just don't get  turned on it makes me feel really awful btw I'm in my second trimester will be entering my 3rd in a month
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I heard in the first trimester sex drive drops and in the second trimester it goes up more than before you were even pregnant.  Still in the first trimester so im not sure how true the last half of that is but the first half is pretty accurate lol
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I feel ya. Ever since i got pregnant i havnt wanted to have sex. I dont get horny and now that im 32 weeks its actually starting to hurt sometimes if he doesnt angle it lol. I feel awful that im never in the mood and tell him that im sorry and he understands and so i jus kinda let him have his 5 mins of it since i kno he wont be getting it for a few months after our baby arrives lol
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It ***** because normally I wouldn't turn down anything but I do it constantly. And I don't wanna hurt his feelings. It makes me feel bad...
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Me and my fiancé have sex maybe once a month. I have a really low sex drive!
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Yes that's been happening to me ! And I don't know why I do that now it's crazy !
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