Needing some advise and support

[jones89]

Just wondering if anyone else is going thru this so me and my baby's father weren't together long n then I found out I was pregnant he broke up with me on my bday and three days later I found out I was pregnant we tried to make it work and we just couldn't agree on things we have totally different priorities he told me his band is his main priority and music is his drug he's 30 years old n lives on his uncles couch working part time he's has his band for ten years and it hasn't progressed well so he would text me prolly once a week and say how r u and the baby and I finally told him texting me once a week dosent make u a father and i ended up changing my number vecause hearig from him would get y blood boiling and stress me out its been 13 weeks and i have yet to hear from him i thibk about texting him to see if he wants a chance to be in his sons life but then i remeber how good im doing without the contact am i in the wrong ??? if he did want to xontact me if he cared he could find me he kbows where i live and he will not be on the birth certificate regardless he already has a three year old he hasn't tried to have contact with I guess I just am needing some support this pregnancy has been rough health wise too   me

[babyboy111]

im in the sameeee boat....havwnt spoke to mine in months...im 27 weeks he wont be around either

[jones89]

Thanks ladies

[baby3ontheway]

Girl dont waste your time on him. Im in the same boat you are just mine was abusive,its not worth it you gave hin the chance he didn't see it important enough to wanna stay. Youll find someone one day who will want to be there and who means it. Good luck.

[Leobaby2013]

i second the other users comments. Honestly if your doing better without him and you know that you are, i wouldnt bring him back into the picture unless he takes you to court. your baby doesnt need to be exposed to his quality of life. im in a rough situation with the dad as well so dont feel alone. message me if you want to talk more.

[cjudd0501]

Don't give this total loser another thought. A real man steps up to his responsibilities. And you're right, if he wanted to be in the child'a life, he would do it, but obviously he's a douche and doesn't care. Listen to your gut. You already know the answer- move on with your life, better your life, and create a great life for your child. Keep documentation of everything the father says and does in case a custody battle ever comes up, as sad as that sounds. This guy is someone who just ***** the life out of you emotionally, it sounds like. Don't put up with it. Move on. You can do it without him.