single moms where are you?

[b__nicole]

So I'm 19 weeks pregnant and its starting to look like i may become a single mom. I kinda want to know some of your stories. I've been keeping my pregnancy a secret and my boyfriend doesn't want a baby right now but wants an abortion and I don't. The baby has 50/50 chance of ending our relationship and I'm terrified of being a single mother who is a full time junior in college but I know it can be done. Anyone want to share?

[rihrih]

Im 21 i have a two n a half year old been on my own since i was four months. Currently preggo numb 2 and been alone since i became preg

[elizabethhhkitty]

You'll be okay:) I'm a single mother and I'm a jr in hs

[Enolasmommy]

Im a single mom and i love it! I wouldnt change it for the world! Every situation is different though. I chose to be a single mom by using donor sperm with both my kiddos same donor for both. I havent met Mr. Right yet have a feeling i wont meet him until im too old to have kids anyway. Lol. I wanted kids and want to be done having kids by age 30. So im going it alone :) i also dont want to have custody battles or child support or worrying which holiday or birthday i will have/see my child. I also dont want my child bouncing from house to house every weekend type thing. Id worry about them being taken care of properly etc. Im a worrier and i have a VERY strong maternal instinct that i want to be with my kids 24/7/365 and then some. My dr says i have the strongest maternal instinct shes ever seen. Lol i believe anyone can do it you just have to have your heart set on it and know that you can do it. It has its hard times but it always gets better. And when your little one looks at you and smiles hugs kisses or tells you that they love everything that upsets you dissappears. Good luck.

[RazisMama]

Whatever you choose I'm sure it will be best but if he is giving you an ultimatum you probably will move on sooner or later. Do what your heart and your gut tell you.

[RazisMama]

I was in the same exact situation as you with my first boyfriend. I went with adoption. There are a lot of good people out there that can't conceive children. If you feel like you aren't ready for the responsibility that is a great option and you can still see your child once in a while so he or she knows you. Good luck.

[Shunda222]

I am 36+4..& the guy I got pregnant by was one of my best friends of 6 years we had screwed around over the years even had a pregnancy scare before 2 years ago so it shocked the hell out of me when he said he wanted me to get an abortion I did not want to do that one day he showed up at my house talkin about lets go to the clinic I refused to go & told him it wasnt his when we both knew it was but he left me alone moved out of state I called him 2months later after I knew for certain I couldnt have a abortion & we talked he didnt deny her he knew it was his and that I had lied we talked till I was 6 months then he gotta girlfriend who started puttin **** in his head and he started to deny her to not stress myself over the situation I cut all ties with him b/c I had got into it with his mom who says i shoulda got abortion & his sister who just likes to talk sh*t I do not want my baby around negative pple or pple who dont want her around he lives in new mexico and I live in tennessee now so he wont see her my baby is well taken care of and shes not even here yet I have great family support as well im ok with being a single mom I have not heard from him and I dnt plan on him callin but anyways my mom and my grandma was single parents and they did fine and im sure I wil too :)