SEX?

[SM04]

My husband and I used to be very sexually active since the beginning. We've been married 5 years and it's never stopped even when I was pregnant with my son.  But with this pregnancy I can't seem to get in the mood. He wants to do it but I just tell him no. I feel bad because I don't want him to feel that I don't want him no more but I just can't get in the mood. Nothing works :( Anyone else go through this? Will it get better as my pregnancy advances? Which btw I am 12 weeks and 6 days pregnant.  

[relleystar]

Me too you are sooo right..cuz I feel so fat lol

[SM04]

That's probably why. I am obsessed with makeup I have tons of it but ever since I've been pregnant I've probably wore makeup twice. I don't even bother to do my hair I just leave it up in a bun. I might have to give that a shot.

[MommaBear1991]

Before i left my baby daddy and pregnancy we were worse than rabbits. 4+ times a day. once pregnant i just didn't feel sexy. Hemorrhoids, bloated, nausea, sore breasts, cramps, it was bad. the last time we did it i purchased a new bra and panties, the sexy kind, and a skimpy night gown, wore those  heels that you wear just to look at abd not walk in, did my makeup... it really helped. made me feel sexy. prolly the best sex i ever had. I suggest this to every woman struggling with her sex drive. Dress sexy, feel sexy, because you are sexy. embrace it! Explore. try something new. visit a special toy shop. sometimes its what's needed. :)

[SM04]

omg that's horrible. we do it once a week if that.

[SM04]

I really hope it changes soon for me. I hate pushing him away.

[SM04]

I force myself too but it makes me so uncomfortable.

[bella3101]

Lol. I was all over my partner every mimute or every day. Not vanilla sex either it was great.  I am 31 weeks now have had sex may be six times the whole time and couldn't imagine ill want to do it again before the baby comes. Poor men. Life definately changes for them. I am so glad its not just me. Ppl say u get super horny but definately not me :( I really miss it too just can't stand the thought

[Lilseamonkey]

In the first two trimesters I couldn't stand sex lol or to even be touched really. Then id get upset cause he never hugged or kissed me haha but I'm in my 3Rd now and I can't get enough

[Babyg92]

before i got pregnant you couldn't keep me and my babys daddy away from each other. we were so sexually active it was crazy. but now I'm pregnant and i just don't feel like it because I'm cramping or i have a headache. i don't know if it will change i am only 10 weeks. i hope it does because i feel bad that i don't have sex with him.

[relleystar]

I feel the same way nd I'm 23weeks..its hard for me to get in the mood. Sometimes I force myself because I feel badd but then I don't bust :(..nd tht makes him feel bad..idk I need help with this one too