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2113367 tn?1344979207

Should I tell my Doctor ?

After my husband decision to get separated I feel like am mentally unstable. I will be good one day and the next day I will cry and cry and cry because every memory comes and take over me at ones. I have been having suicide though ever since all the drama stared but i never act on it because I will look down at my belly and think about my baby,But Yesterday i try to commit suicide because i just wanted to stop thinking about the past. I know i did wrong and i feel so stupid for my actions. I LOVE my baby girl and i don't want to loose her. I'm scared if i tell the doctor of what i try to do they will take my baby away from me but also i know i most get some type of mental stability in order to be a good mom to my princess. What should I do ?
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I would tell God first, ask him for strength to get thru this. My 1st pregnancy went all the way south.... The guy left ( we were never together) and I didn't want him in that way but we were like bestfriends & when he ignored me that hurt the worst....needless to say I had a miscarriage....I was depressed as ever, but I kept my faith and knew that even at my lowest point God had my back & does things for a reason.... Don't take ur life...its precious...people love yu and I'm sure are attached to that baby as well... Thankfully I'm pregnant again but by the love of my life lol and this pregnancy is going well....so what im saying is, even through the storm pray, ask God for strength, he sees what u need and knows what u need more than u know yourself. Keep pushing because you never know what God has in store for u at the end of your storm ;)
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My heart goes out to you. Anyone close to you that you can open up to? If Christian, go to your pastor/priest as they are or know good counselors, they can help you a ton! I'll do this first and then talk to the doc.
Sometimes it's hard to believe, but life is worth it and nothing is worth your life, not even the most amazing and handsome guy out there (and I doubt yours was).
Also read or listen to positive or inspirational texts, programs online, radio or movies... This has strenghten me and helped me a lot, more than psychology sessions or medicine. Today I really believe just like Marianne Williamson said, that our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure... As you let your own light shine, you unconsciously give others ( including your unborn baby) the permission to do the same. As you are liberated from your fear, your presence automatically liberate others.
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2210393 tn?1347155903
I really think you should speak to your doctor. Like the above posters have said it will look so much better that your searching for help. I know how a break up feels when your pregnant but as much as it seems like the end of the world i promise it isnt! With my first pregnancy i left my bd because he was being a jerk & i swear i felt like crap. But it ended up being the best thing for us both. We both grew in that time nd now we're expecting our second. Its not perfect but its a lot better then it was. I have u and ur family in my prayers. And remember to be strong if not for urself then for the little princess u have growing inside of u that i know if she was in your shoes some years from now u would wish that u showed her how to be a strong woman! :)
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2072659 tn?1340597373
U should talk to your doc.... he/she can get you help... it sounds like depression which can lead to postpartum depression. They will not take your baby away because many women go through this! You can do it but pleaseeeee don't try to commit suicide again, it's not just your life you will be taking but your innocent child to
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1900942 tn?1462421460
Def tell your Dr because showing them you want help will prove to them you truly care for your daughter...and I'm so sorry you are going through this...I'm here if you just need someone to talk to <3
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