Well She is older and also some one he tried to get with before we got together i have tried to talk to him but it doesnt help we broke up right after we Found Out Because of it but are back together
I was the one that wanted nothing to do with my hubby during the pregnancy. I felt bad but i just couldnt help it. But this sounds a little different. This lady.... is she older? A threat? He could just be scared about being a dad and doesnt know how to act right now. Try to sit him down when there arent any distractions and let him know that him being distant is hurting ur feelings. Ask him if uve done anything wrong ( not that u have) but it might make him feel bad and want to open up to u.