so nothing to do with pregnancy i just need some opinions

[parkersmommy]

So my husband has always been really weird about penis even his own. Like once while he was sleeping I tool a picture of his and put it on his cell as the wallpaper as a joke and he flipped. So the neighbor is a girl that I've known for 10 years. She works the opposite shift of me and my husband watches her kids so they are always alone together. She doesn't have a phone so she uses mine and last night as a joke I put a picture of my husbands penis on my wallpaper and he said he didn't think i'd leave it there because I wouldn't want her to see it. So I told him I didn't care who saw it it wasn't my junk. So this morning someone called for her and left a voicemail and I gave him the phone and told him to take it to her and he did and he didn't change the picture or anything just let her see his penis like it was no big deal. I have had suspicions for a while but to me this just confirms it. What do you guys think?

[Carly1306]

I don't know. I don't think it's a good basis to know if 'something is going on' or not. I would annoyed if it were me. I wouldn't want anyone else seeing those pics, so I wonder why he wasn't annoyed. But, that's something you're just going to ask him. I wouldn't sneak around (not that I'm that's what you're doing/have done) I just mean that you should just come right out and ask him why he wasn't bothered about her seeing it, when he would be about anything else when his penis is involved.

[parkersmommy]

No I took that picture four years ago this was one he sent me himself

[momabear86]

Probably did it to teach you a lesson! How would you feel if he took private photos of you while you slept? Tell him your sorry and then discuss your relationship and if he has feelings for this woman.

[mrssandefur]

That's supposed to say *as long as*__

[mrssandefur]

Wow I.have.no idea. *MY* husband wouldn't care as.PNG as it wasn't like family who saw it, he's really open like that. So maybe he's becoming more relaxed about it.

[hairdid]

Yeah I say he forgot it was on there...

[parkersmommy]

And then after it all got acknowledged still didn't change it or anything

[parkersmommy]

Yes even told her that I was the one that put it there

[mrssandefur]

Could he have forgotten it was on there? Like did he actually see the screen and what was on it?