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Opinion Please. All welcome.

So apparently there's this phone which has been laying around for a while now, today I decided to touch it but it had a password. When I asked my hubby to unlock it for me he refused then became protective of it. I felt bad then I told him it must be full of women photos; then he said the phone is not even yours. I have felt bad. Did I overreact ? What do you think ladies?
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Dont feel bad at all any girl would have done the same
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If he had nothing to lie about he would've been opened it u need to chexk him my bf was like that once and he was cheating on me he even layed his fone on silent under the mattress so I wouldnt noe ppl wer txtin him ..now I can go thru it no prob bc hebhas nothing to hide
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My husband and I know the passwords to both of our phones. Seems fishy that he won't unlock it.
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My boyfriend has a password, but I know it.. and he doesn't get weird when I touch his phone.. idk, all I know is sometimes I over think things though too, it could be something very minimal. Best of luck :)
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Um why are you sad or feel like yiur overreacting. ??? If he has a password you dont know it and he won't open it for you no Brainer no questions hes hiding something from you thats shady af
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Hubby* sorry.
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I have complete trust in my boyfriend. But if for whatever reason I was in the same situation as you and he reacted how your boyfriend acted I would lose all trust for him. That's very weird and suspicious.
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Thank you ladies.
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Oh yeah I would force him to open. It or try like hell to figure out that password lol you reacted how any sane women would.. that's just odd behavior.
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If my man would not open the phone for me I know he is hiding something and I would be like good bye!
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Very suspicious.
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Sounds extremely suspicious to me love.
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He refused to open. Men can be pain. I really don't understand them.
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I would say open the dam phone
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No I think he overreacted. It seems fishy.
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Well its not a secret phone, the phone has been laying around for a while now but when i decided to check it he begun to get protective,  he doesn't use the phone. I just think if that's the past he shouldn't be afraid of anything.
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Not sure why he has to have a secret phone with password and doesn't even want you to touch it. We don't have screen locks or passwords for the electronics in our house. I think he's hiding something. Either he'll tell you and it will be upsetting or he won't and it will always be a huge elephant in the room and might ruin your relationship. I've been down that road, and it isn't fun, but we made it through. Just let him know that it's important you trust each other. If he's scared of your reaction to whatever is on the phone, then he doesn't need to be doing it, or he needs to be honest about what he is doing. Good luck
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