Feeling of being alone?

[excitedmamitobe]

Just need to vent a little :/ Sometimes I want to cry and lock myself in a dark corner and just well, sit there and cry my eyes out. I feel alone many times. My husband sometimes being the issue. He has these mood changes where he wont talk to me and he'll ignore me for hours to days at a time. It upsets me so much. I feel like I did something wrong or idk what to do to make it better. I cant talk to him about it because he has a lack of communication when he is in the moods. He isnt hurting me phycially but mentally and emotionally because I cant figure it out and I dont know what to do to just try and let it go for sake of baby. I know being upset or anything with these emitions is bad for my baby. This happened prebaby and im just about due. It isnt the pregnancy. Idk what it is. I think its me. Maybe he doesnt love me anymore or he just hates me for some reason ;( What can I do?

[mamaluvsjayceon]

I Know the feeling of being lonely. I feel that way at times. But key is to have a good support system that will b there to pick u up and distract u from the frustrations ....

[Epy1609]

My mom does the whole ignore thing too. The way I went about it was write her a letter since im much better at describing my feeling then saying them out loud. Why not try that? And btw just because your christain doesnt mean that god would prefer you to be unhappy all your life, thats just my opinion. If you are better off alone & feel better then why stay & take the mental abuse for?

[mamaluvsjayceon]

Theres nothing you can do hes a jerk. Dont blame yourself. Hes a grown *** man ig he dont wanna communicate f**k him. You have enough to worry about u dont need stress from him. Maybe you guys need some space so you can be in good spirits for the baby n he can clear his head. I hope the best for you.

[excitedmamitobe]

There is no point in that. He has done this before because I supposedly did something to make him mad so I was literally ignored for a month. I talk to him about it and all and cry and whatever else there is and it doesnt work. Also we are christian and due to my beliefs I havent done the whole "im done" as much as sometimes I feel like I want to I never will. I believe its something worth working out onand fixing.  I just dont know what else to tell him or say or do to get it through to him that I feel so unnapreciated :(

[Epy1609]

Be blunt and say something.... theres not much advice I can give do to the fact hes not dropping hints but it doesnt seem like your doing anything wrong.  I would use my hormones to the test cry in front of him or make a scene to get his attention. Its his loss & if nothingvtell him you cant do this anymore with him

[excitedmamitobe]

I guess im alone here too ;/