boyfriends

[helter]

Is there any other girls out there that have to deal with abusive boyfriends?/:

[helter]

Thank you ladies for sharing your advice. I appreciate it. Ive been so upset with the arguing and him.being violent.ill take your advice cause no one i know has ever been through this

[babyweasel05]

I don't have a physically abusive but he's my ex now through his own choice n in all honestly the emotional and mental strain he has put me through I'm glad he chose to dump me halfway through my pregnancy cause he's taken all my confidence n self esteem so gives me time to get some back before babies her....
As soon as they make you feel a way that hurts physically or emotionally there's an issues that needs to be resolved... Especially physically! Hoe you get it sorted

[baby2014]

Please take this advice completely to heart and take it seriously. I've dealt with 2 abusive jerks in my life. They always have the same routine and story of how much they love you and how Sorry they are and that they will never hit or hurt you again. I wasted 4 years of my life crying and hurting physically. The best thing you can do is run for the hills and do not look back. The only way a person can change from being abusive is through professional help. And that doesn't always work either. My first one was very controlling and unpredictable. He would hit me out of no where. I wasn't allowed to have friends or talk to anyone and I couldn't wear any of my clothes it had to be baggy pants and long t-shirts. 2 years I spent in that mess. I finally got away. The second abusive relationship was right after he wasn't as bad but he was arguments were rough. I back handed me in the side of my face and mouth and left it black and blue. He literally bounced on my head while I was lying in .bed with his shins and bruised my ear and cheek. He choked me to the point of seeing lights. He punched me in my head and I felt so dizzy. I wasted 2 more years. I don't know why I didn't learn my lesson the first time around. I have come to realize that abusive men do not change. Those 2 haven't I feel so bad for their wives. But they are just like I was they want to believe their lies that they love them it will never happen again bull jive. The second one also kicked me in my stomach I told him I thought I may be pregnant and we got into an argument a week later and he kicked me so hard in my stomach laughed and said your not pregnant now.

I'm blessing married to a wonderful man that will never hurt me. He values my life his children's lives and his own. A real man will never lay a finger on you. Please just run far away and never look back. Find you a real man that won't hit you or abuse you. I have so many horror stories it's unreal.

[Berplus1]

Noone "has" to deal with an abusive boyfriend!   Leave before it gets worse hun!!!

[TeenMama2013]

I did.. I broke up with him because I didn't want him to harm me or my baby.. I had to get a restraining order and everything but its off now.. And he constantly is talking to me.. Wants me back and I'm like nope. He says he changed but he doesn't.. He always lies.. So I'm like screw you and found myself a great guy who's wanting to be my sons father!! He already calls my son his, he and I are already talking marriage :) it's awesome to have someone love my son as much as me.. Now for him to come and be here will be so much better! Lol

My advice.. Walk away! And hope he changes his act.. Or just don't go back.. Abusive turns into more abuse when baby is here and you both are low on sleep and so forth. Try to work it out now.I tried and it didn't work. So try it won't hurt if you do! Good luck and hope things get better.

[Ariel_21]

I did in the beginning of the my pregnancy. After a few arguments and fights I couldn't take it no more. I called the cops and broke up with him moved. And if been 5 long months I haven't been in the same place with him more then 5 min. We are on okay treams right now he wants me back but I have my guard up. He the father of my baby and the step father to my daughter. And she calls him dad. And I think when we are apart everything is so much better.