starting to kick in

[Tia2015]

I had my first hospital app with a midwife today and i guess its now starting to kick in and im really scared and nervous im 27 weeks in two days and i dont know how to feel anymore im also young will be 18 in november due two weeks after birthday im just all over the place i pretend im not to my partner:( can anyone tell me how us ladies get through this hard reality part

[ericaranae]

You definitely sound like a mother... I always say the day we find out were pregnant we become mothers and sometimes men just cant do that like us... But its like the moment you see your baby you will instantly give them all the love you can and with that you will be the best mother and father to your baby they are the best motivation in the world to make you do right...every smile makes you stronger

[Danielleberger1]

This is my first too, but I'm a few years older than you, I just turned 24. But I think even for me at my age, I'm still nervous and all over the place with my emotions. I'm ready for my baby girl (I'm 33 weeks now), but I'm still nervous on how to be a good mom. My baby's dad and I broke up and he's not ready to be a father at all, so it's just me on my own. So I am dealing with a lot of how can I be the mother and the father figure or have a great father figure in her life. Luckily my dad and my brothers are all willing to be a father figure to her, but it's still a lot of stress. Plus being 100% prepared for everything. But I just know everything will be ok because I care and love my girl so much that I will do whatever it takes for her. That's what makes this all easier for me. :)

[ericaranae]

This is my 2nd i was so anxious with my 1st and when i had her they placed her on my chest and every fear i ever had was gone to be looking at the most beautiful thing in the world no worry or anything can compare... And i had the epidural i got induced so my contractions got intense real fast lol

[Tia2015]

Thankyou so much! Is this your first or second child? Im really scared to give birth im not good with pain at all but i dont want the epidural because i have been told this will probably be my only child so i want to do it all natural so i get the whole experience but im so scared and just cant believe its all happening

[ericaranae]

Just take a deep breath you will see how easy it is...its not easy but just having that love from your child makes every day so easy and so worth it you maybe scared and worried now but when you hear thay cry for the 1st time you will know that its your destiny to be a mom you will find a routine and everyday will just be a normal day...

[ericaranae]

Just take a deep breath you will see how easy it is...its not easy but just having that love from your child makes every day so easy and so worth it you maybe scared and worried now but when you hear thay cry for the 1st time you will know that its your destiny to be a mom you will find a routine and everyday will just be a normal day...