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[mamaoftwo8310]

I have a strong feeling its a girl I'm really bummed about it. I don't want girls I want little boys I don't feel comfortable haveing a little girl.some judge me an say god has a plan sorry but a plan my a** I don't want her to be like me none the less I have no want for little girls. my son is my life he feels like I did something right with girls noooo

[beautifulmum]

nope i am all good i am moving past it i wont let on failure keep me from another child my boyfriend and i want a baby together and it doesnt matter anymore what it is but i do want a boy but just want that birth moment the way it is supposed to go and bring my new baby home in my arms

[beautifulmum]

Thanks i kinda figured you werent talking to me and thanks

[rachyrou]

By the wayto avoid confusion.. I am replying to the original poster, not the rest of the people who have commented. As far as I can tell the original poster hasn't suffered a loss. My point was to the Original poster that those who have had a loss could easily be offended..as she is complaining that she has no want for a little girl..I am sorry for everyone's losses..and beautifulmum i'm sorry you lost your little boy, I hope you're blessed with a boy for your sisters to have a brother. All the best.

[Spiket77]

You can hope for whatever you want and you should feel comfortable expressing yourself here. I'm sorry that not everyone understands you are still grieving. Others may be grieving a loss of a little girl...so this post might rub them the wrong way. Good luck with your next miracle!

[beautifulmum]

ya it is kind of a double grieve as i not only lost the pregnancy but found out by delivery him that he was infact a boy
but i am strong woman with two beautiful daughters and an amazing man to help me create another miracle i can hope will be another healthy boy

[rachyrou]

Sorry for everyone's losses by the way.

[Spiket77]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will always miss him. Another boy will not replace him...nor will a daughter. I imagine you are still processing your loss and it is manifesting in this fear of a daughter. Peace to you!

[beautifulmum]

I am not pregnant i too just lost my pregnancy and son at 20 weeks

[PriceFamily91611]

At least ur having a baby period, mine died monday so u shuld just b thankful!!!

[beautifulmum]

I totally agree as well at this point i will pray for healthy baby and hope i am blessed to bring a son home

[KTowne]

I agree with Rachyou, you just need to be greatful for having a healthy pregnancy, and baby, it's not up to you to decide what you have, so you have to deal, either way.

[rachyrou]

This might sound harsh but it's true. I can hardly understand your post. Be greatful you can have children. I know women who would DIE to have a child but will never have any due to medical problems. I also know women who have multiple miscarriages. Just hope your baby is healthy. Be greatful for what you have and remind yourself how lucky you are.

[beautifulmum]

i agree but there has been no boys since my dad and after losing my only son i am saying it is hard to know i might never have another boy but i really just want to hold my baby

[Newmommy86]

I think it doesnt matter boy or Girl aslong.as your baby is healthy

[beautifulmum]

well i can tell you any child is a blessing for sure and it is scarey to get one of the opposite sex.
I just recently lost my pregnancy with what i found out was my only son i have 2 daughters and so does my man. i was heart broken cause i want a mommas boy i am trying again but scared to have another girl