Am I overreacting?

[JasmineLS]

I dont know if im just overreacting but I feel like my babies dad isnt as interested I have only had 1 doctors appointment & I invited him & no reply when I went to my ultrasound to find out what I was having he made up an excuse not to go after my ultrasound called him didnt reply till the next day. Makes me feel like he wont be around or doesnt care!

[Aly96]

With the way hes acting i dont think you are over reacting at all . You should sit him down face to face and have a serious talk about how he feels about the baby and explain to him how you feel about him (like what you just said on here.) Cuz if he does care he sure doesnt show it hes making himself look bad and if he doesnt care you deserce to know now so you can take the necessary precautions to raise this baby alone . Not to scare you or anything just trynna give you the right advice .

[Aly96]

He could also be really busy , or scared , so the faceto face is the best way to go about it that way he has to respond .

[JasmineLS]

Thank you I thought I was overreacting  I just dont want to seem like im complaining or being annoying & expecting to much. He seemed really into it at first now hes going back to old ways hanging out with his friends & stuff like that. He tells me he just nervous & stresses but i still think he should at least ask how things are going.

[JasmineLS]

I didnt want to have to plan my future as a single mom but I dnt want to force him to step up either so just like you said I might have to do it alone & I know its gonna be hard but I just hope everything turns out good.

[Aly96]

Yeah he should definitely still ask and if hes nervous he can always talk to you . I mean im pretty sure you're nervous too i know im nervous and im 22 weeks . Im not going to stop being nervous until my baby is in my arms . Being nervousis normal and talking about it helps . And talking to each other eases stress . Its good to know what each other are thinking and where each other are at when it comes to the baby . You are definitely not overreacting.  And if i were you i wouldnt even care if i was being annoying there is a child involved and i would want to know what hes thinking and what he plans to do and all that good stuff . Communication is key right now . Its the only thing that will give you that peace of mind .

[Aly96]

There was a point where i thought i was gonna have to do this alone . I was soo scared but i planned everything out and having those plans and confidence gave me peace of mind . I wasnt sure what was going to happen but i was prepared for whatever so the stress faded , but everything turned out okay . And hope all does for you as well . If you ever need to talk or ask a question or whatever feel free to msg me :) ill do my best to help you <3

[JasmineLS]

Thank you so much(: I will talk to him hopefully everything goes back to how it was & we can work it out I really dont want to do it alone but if i have to it was probably for the better.

[dadou24]

Hello I'm 18 weeks  I think I'm going crazy...I can't think straight,I'm scared nervous my boyfriend never be there for me ,Hes always bz ,I have to go by myself on every doctors appointment ,He doesn't seem too happy I mean at first he was now everything  is different.I'm afraid I'm gonna be a single mother.I just want him to step up and tell me what he plan on doing.This is the most painful stress a  pregnant girl has to go to