ladys i need some advice ...

[cinthia1995]

So me and my baby's dad had a good relationship, we argued , like all couples. We use to live together until last month things started to change .. i moved back to my parents and he did to, to save up for the baby since all the bills were keeping us broke... So from there I thought things were going to get better but they been the complete opposite . We got into arguments all the time, he wouldn't come see me, txt nor call or ask me how I was . so eventually I broke up with him, I felt horrible but he acted like he didn't care . I still tried talking to him and he would ignore me and till this point he still is. It hurts so much to be with out him . I don't know what happen to us . he chooses anything over me , he just doesn't care anymore. How can someone go from I love you one day to just completely ignore you the next .. I been so sad lately , what should I do , who else is going through  the same ? Could it be another girl?

[cinthia1995]

Thanks a lot , yalls advice helped me (:

[Jasmine_jay_]

I understand. My child's father and I broke up two weeks before I found out. We argued constantly, and he was doing the same exact things your bd is doing. Wouldn't call or text, barely wanted to spend time with me or anything. I soon found out it indeed was another woman but they were not in a relationship. That lasted up until last month. For some reason, he and this young lady stopped talking and we now are working on getting ourselves together personally and as a couple. We are not together, but things have changed for the better for us. We're praying and fasting together and talking more.....and now we're more loving and understanding towards each other. The best thing I can say to you is, if with him is where your heart truly wants to be. Stand strong, but don't play a fool. I let him do what he wanted and yes it hurt and I cried.....but in the end, the Lord hasbrought us back to each other for some reason. Read God's word and pray, and there you will find comfort. If this is truly meant to be, God won't let you lose what's meant for you. People may have negative comments, but keep pushing in the direction God is leading you. For me, it was to stand still and know he is God and that he will answer my prayers. Keep your head up and stay strong.

[mckenziemom]

Your not along im going throught the sane thing with my childs father. I had to come to the conclusion that right now is not the time to worry about our relationship and too focus on our daughter and her well being. If its meant to be things will get better if not you will be ok.

[spazsgirl]

I am sorry that you are going through this. I know its difficult but right now a relationship with someone who is ignoring you should definitely not be a priority or a worry. You now have to make all your decisions about you and the baby. If there is another woman, it wasn't meant to be anyway but just think positive and just be hopeful that things will eventually work themselves out. Good luck to you.