Vent!!

[ftmkelowna]

My mother in law an i were extremely close  Before I had even met my hubby his younger brother an i were bff hungout at his house starting from the time i was 13, at 15 i met my hubby( then 20). I found out i was pregnant the day my 19 bday. we told are familys right away who were so exstatic first grandbaby for hubbys mom. few weeks after we had accounced pregnancy Hubbys brother & gf said they were to soon as that happened I was treated as non-exsistent.the last few months my mother in law an her boyfriend constantly complain my parents over step an never give them a chance to do anything for us an that we are constantly leaving them out of things. Soon after we found out i was preg my mother in law immeditetly told us that she would buy the crib for us no ifs or buts.. we waited until i was 25 weeks by that point my parents just called her an said we'd picked out a crib and it was on sale, hubbys mother an boyfriend asked if my parents could buy it an then agreed to pay my parents back that month. Im just about 37 weeks an my parents havnt been payed back yet an calls from my parents to hubbys family go un awsnered. My parents have done an boughten so much us my mom has spent her time going on classified adds(craigslist,castanet) an has gotten us free clothes not to mention the 1000's of dollars they spent on other stuff for us including paying for us to get another ultrasound to find out gender an going out of there way to make sure that hubbys mom knew about it an was there ( not that she showed any excitement at all) My mother in law has only boughten us a blanket an stuffy which came from a dollar store that was doing closeout sales  everything was 33 cents… to be continued in comments

[ftmkelowna]

When im about to start pushing it will only be hubby an i. but until then the plan had always been to have my mom an hubbys mom in the room. but now I do not want hubbys mom in the room or hospital let alone do i even want to tell her when im in labour.

[shelleversole]

I am only having my husband in labor delivery room with me. Don't feel pressured to let a bunch of people on that you don't want in. Sorry they're doing that it *****. Just let it roll off your shoulders, and keep your head up.

[ShellyLette]

Bleh! I can't stand when people don't do what they say they're gonna do. Honestly I don't want my babys grandma(fathers mother) in the room, we don't have any problems, so don't feel bad bout that! I just want me and him in there, everyone else can wait!

[ftmkelowna]

Its so aggravating!!  

[lovemykids319]

Thats messed...honestly donr bothered to inclued.her anymore

[ftmkelowna]

yet shes boughten so much stuff for my hubbys brother an his gf whos due months after me then uses the excuse im gonna buy you guys this an this but have to wait cuase i dont have money. Couple weeks ago My mom an a friend threw me a baby shower My mother in law couldnt even be bothered to show up her excuse She was way to sick even though THAT night she went out for dinner. Tonight hubby called to ask if we could borrow a birthing/excersize ball ( that we know was boughten over a year ago an  never used) there response "Go buy one there like 20-25 $$ at walmart. Then they just hung up.
Im so done I dont even want this woman in the labour room!!