this generation needs jesus

[lisarye]

It's sad how as soon as some of these young ppl have a baby they don't own up to responsibilities! Like these mom's rather party than be a parent. It's like some of them will let their man keep them from going out and having a good time everynight but won't hesitate to go out and stay home for their kids. Smh sorry had to vent I've been seeing this everywhere really pisses me off

[lisarye]

And I clearly said some young people, not all of them.

[lisarye]

Girl yeah pregnant or not I have tough skin. What they gotta say don't bother me at all. And yes I love me some Jesus.

[Jen9588]

I know what you're saying is so true its mostly younger moms but yes definitely older moms too. N yes they do need jesus just as much as me n you do, ppl get but hurt quick, o well tho

[lisarye]

Lol thanks for being understanding

[lisarye]

I'm pregnant. My hormones are outta wack too but people don't need to come at me sideways. All I did was express my opinion. if y'all don't like what I have to say then move along. I see posts I don't like but I keep it moving I don't attack ppl for expressing their thoughts.

[showard022]

You could say hello and offend people on here. Don't worry about it. We are all hormonal, tired, and sensitive. Including myself. lol

[lisarye]

I didn't LITERALLY mean they need Jesus, that's a sarcastic saying ppl say now and days. I didn't think anyone would take that literally sorry if I offended anyone

[bubbles_baby]

I believe everyone is sensitive because they are pregnant. Just take that in consideration. That's all I wanted to say.

[Mommy_Daddy_2]

OK I agree people need to step up and be parents but that has nothing to do with god/Jesus I personally am an atheist and a wonderful mother and wife. And for whoever brought up abortion stop! Jeez there was plenty of drama and bs earlier due to that topic.

[lisarye]

You're right I actually wasn't referring to anyone on this site but people are sensitive and get defensive. But we all know someone who puts their needs before their child's

[showard022]

Are* my phone drives me nuts. lol

[lisarye]

Hinkypunkhead
If people wanna be selfish and get an abortion that's them they can take that up with God on judgment day. Uh as for that other stuff I mean if advice would help them then so be it,we could all use improving.

[showard022]

Please keep abortions out of the conversation and off the forum.  Dont need to start that up again. I'm sure she's not just talking about girls on this site. Most girls on this site don't have their children yet and going out isn't an issue. Also allot of these mothers Andre wonderful.

[lisarye]

Well I am 20 so I'm young and never referred to myself as a great mom I wouldn't brag about my parenting like that and I'm not downing anyone else BUT if you are partying all the time having different guys around I mean that's neglect. In my eyes you're not a fit mom that's all.

[hinkypunkheid]

Would you rather they get a abortion and not be on this site asking for guidance as they try to be good.  

[enajarat]

Nobody needs Jesus, they just need common sense.

[lisarye]

Yeah def agree but I said young people as in 25 under not necessarily teens cause I know some good teen mama's too.  

[showard022]

9 months*

[showard022]

Same here. I took great care of my son. Breastfed him till 9 weeks and didn't leave him at all until 6 months. He was taken care of wonderfully and I was only 19. I think it depends on the person and the way they were brought up. My mom was a wonderful example for me thankfully. I understand what you mean though. Munch there aren't allot of young mothers who take as well of care of there children like some. There are also some awesome young mothers. But also some middle age women are worse.

[melcarin]

Honestly I don't think any of us really have any room to judge anyone else. Just because you think you're a great mom in one sense doesn't mean anyone else agrees with that. Were humans and by nature we all have flaws. Being young doesn't make you a bad parent. Being older doesn't make you a good one. I've seen young parents do great and older ones do awful but it's not our lives or our choices. How someone else raises a child doesn't really affect how we raise ours.

[munch2369]

I havent been away from my baby for more than an hour since hes been born. I get up with him every 2 hours. I take care of him just as good as any other mother i know and his father wont even get out of bed in the middle of the night to help me. I wash him, feed him, love him. Im 18 and im athiest. Sometimes morals are as good as religion and its not all young people. Ive seen middle aged women that wanna get drunk and do the same thing and leave their kids at home with a baby sitter every night. Hell ive seen mothers like that who dont even care if their kids are taken care of.