working with your partner bf/gf hubby wife??

[nurseLizzy]

Ok girls..... hes flipping out.... I got hired at the same place as him.. and needless to say...HES LIVID... he doesnt want me to work there. He said it will cause drama, problems,  be awkward , and he doesnt want to see me talking to any males.... and he doesnt want me causing problems if he talks to females ( outrageous yhis is work. Come on now... theres a difference between talking and flirting )  so what r ur guys' opinions. . Am I the only one who thinks it ok.... we r working not galavanting ....we arent sitting around having tea time.. wth is his problem

[Rozesz]

Honestly it seems like hes hiding something. I've been there done that! You should get thatjob screw whatever he thinks about it and try to find out what's going on. Don't be blind. Guys are sneaky, he should've been told his family about you guys if he was serious about your relationship. Idk that's just what I would do. Tell him you want him to tell his family about you guys and get your job. Don'tlt him hide you girly trust!

[nurseLizzy]

Thhank u girls I appreciate it.... :-).. that kinda made me feel selfish. . Im sorry guys

[nurseLizzy]

No I respect the pregnancy app. And im on here because there are other forums and dealing with things while being pregnant. Im almost sure I am. But have to wait for 2 weeks. And was getting info and insight on what to do if I am... my intent isnt to take attention off of the preg girls.

[rebeccaann11]

Babyyjdxo be nice.
people on here answer questions they either are familiar with our might know. Everyone has problems.  

[Kimmiikinns]

Babyyjdxo you need to shut up! She can post whatever she wants and she said she might be pregnant. Don't worry about what she posts maybe she needs someone to talk to smh insensitive ppl just ugh don't read her posts its not that hard to just go to the next one

[nurseLizzy]

I known I deserve more.... and a man who is open with EVERYONE  about us..... he was so gun ho about this a few months ago.... its just making me feel worse n worse.... and he acts like nothing has changed but he can see it in my body language and mood and face that im hurting.....  how do y move on from someone u thought GOD brought to u.....wont be 50/50....  and he knows he hurts me... he said he knows that hes makes me sad because he cant give me more..... why not change it!! .. and if imnnot prg. . Im not gonna try.... I think that will be IT for me..... . Clean break....

[babyyjdxo]

Really? This is a pregnancy app not a im having problems with my boyfriend app, this is whats wrong with this app, stupid drama like this gets all the attention when theres other pregnancy posts going on not being answered, you are not even pregnant like come on, really?

[proudFTMTeTe]

he has given u so many signs that he is not good for u n until u realize that u are not going to be as happy as u can be without him sign #1 which for me is all the sign i would need but if he cant accept your daughter he doesn't need to be in your life point blank period no trying to work nothing out n definitely wouldn't be trying to have a baby by him ( if u arent pregnant) n #2 tripping about u working at the same place he is hiding something if he cant tell his family your more then friends he is hiding something...let him go your worth more then that

[Prego0119]

Hmm he's got to GO. He reminds me of my EX to be honest. He's either got someone at work or they know a different person that he's shown you. My husband and I met at a club where we worked. He was security and I was a cocktail server in hoochie outfits. It was singles galore.. THAT is a drama fest waiting to happen. But we loved working together. We looked out for one another.  You guys are in a professional atmosphere. He's not being honest with you and is f*kng with your head. I hate to sound rude and I hope you don't take offense to it. I'm sure he's pretty good at manipulating. But you sound like a great girl and he knows that but too selfish to settle and give you what you DESERVE.

[maygan89]

I work with my husband and I love it! He will come around :) I was nervous at first too but it's like bringing home to work with me and its brought us closer. Just give time and I'm sure the same will happen for you :)

[bama_mama]

Go read my comment on your other post

[nurseLizzy]

Thats what I said! !! I show him off... or did.... but its only when we r out that he wants to show me off..... not to our friends / family etc..... but he tells people hes "seeing csomeone

[nurseLizzy]

I think i am.... but ill have to see... idk yet... im wait till the beginning of may to find out :-) 2 weeks. I know I may sound dumb. Given the circumstances But I hope I am.... !! I just want 1.more... and I do love him.... so . :-/  uugg..

And be just started there in feb ... u think he would?? He said if thats the reason I wanna be there we already have problems cuz he dont like any of the girls there... :-/..

Ima see how it goes. .... and if I GET another offer else where... ima take it... but till then he can stop being so mean and just suck it up.... .

[celia_6]

Are u prego

[Kimmiikinns]

If he loves you then he would show you to the world! You are his women not his friend if he wanna be friends them cut him off. Get rid of him. If your in a relationship and you don't feel like it you need to think about your situation. Tell him how you feel and if you don't get the response you want or needed then honey its more men out here!! We all have to have a bad one to know what a good men is

[nurseLizzy]

But all the girls there he said arent cute... and ... not his type....... uuugg flip!!!! What am I doing or thinking .... do i i have the vail of stupid over my dang eyes.... I should just work there see whats goin on.. .. and if it aint nothing then make sure I give him space huh.... I can be professional.  And heck yeah I need to make $$$ ima single momma and gotta pay rent etc.... if he dont like it he can go.....  :-( I almost called them and decline :-(  ( head down in shame)   ..  I never use to be this passive wth is wrong with me.. what if he isnt doing anything ???

[babyyjdxo]

Um he sounds shady, are you pregnant?

[hazel413]

Girl, see I'm not the only one whose spidy senses are tingling lol

[rebeccaann11]

Kimmikinn is right. He might have a girl on the side that works there.

[nurseLizzy]

U guys could be right..... it doesnt make sense he doesnt want anyone to know our busines EVER not even when we were at school together.... he hasn't told his mom im anything more than a friend even though his family loves me... the only time he let me meet them..  he wont take me back for some reason :-/... says its to much and we will cross the bridge when we get there. That hurt my heart seeing as how i opened my family to him and my church family.... he told my mom in feb he wanted to get us a house .. who does that???? Who Does that!!!..??.  He makes me so sad and upset by then happy at other times..... I feel bipolar

[Kimmiikinns]

Smh* lol

[Kimmiikinns]

He's probably doin something he ain't got no business doin at that damn job! Get yo FBI on and get in there and make your money. Uh uh I don't trust that why would he have a problem with you working and talking bout flirting SMG he's probably doin some flirting. Its always the guilty ones tryna put the blame on somebody

[joceeykittykitty]

Something smells funky...

[hazel413]

So screw him and his attitude. He can quit if he wants. But you stand your ground. N soon you will see why he ain't want you there