to the moms who have a fear of misscariage

[Bella1296]

Heya! i know im not one of the popular moms to be on here but i thought id let out my excitement,after thinking id had a missed misscariage i was so upset going into the ultrasound that i would have bad news,i had convinced myself after having hardly no symptoms! but ladies! i saw A healthy baby wriggling around he or she wouldnt stop moving! hehe it was amazing i was so shocked and felt so lucky. To the moms out there who have a fear of misscariage,hold your head high and go into that room and as soon as you see your baby, you will feel so much relief and happiness!

:D

[Shawty81593]

Aw OK :)

[Bella1296]

yep that is the spirit! I shall reply to your mail now Shawty81593! :D

[Shawty81593]

U Said It Gurl :)
that's the Spirit ****Stay Positive **** ")

[Bella1296]

thank you so much mummys to be! :D

I feel amazing after seeing my little one, for those who haven't seen theirs yet or are worried exactly like I was (  I went to bed every night feeling so scared reading about mums on here having healthy babies and seeing theirs and I couldn't imagine that being me! ) well it was me! so just hang on in there! I also had some spotting around 6 weeks! its completely normal mine was brown but ive heard it can be pink,even red aslong as theres not a lot and it doesn't happen everyday then theres no need to worry. but just check just to be safe! I used to google everything I had. I litrually had no sickness, no pains, no nothing! I did have a few pains here and there when walking, or sneezing but that's it. I read horror stories about women not even seeing their baby at the ultrasound, but the chances are your baby is perfectly healthy and when you see your little one you will have a feeling that you have never ever felt before. its unreal especially for girls who are so so scared like me. aww its lovely hearing happy endings, My partner was told he couldn't have babies and I lost all hope in ever having a child in the future with him. then out of the blue im pregnant! - everything happens for a reason! :) I am twelve weeks three days today, due 8th February 2014! I thought I was only twelve weeks, I was so close though! ;) hehe. the Truth is do not be scared if you don't have symptoms like other women do, were all different! misscariages happen but not to every women and even if you have had one,it can be so scary to think it may happen again. the chances are you have such a healthy baby inside you! stay positive :) and it is true. doctors can get many things wrong. nothing can be for certain especialy when it comes to fertility! it took me a year and 3 months to fall pregnant. good luck moms to be its lovely hearing all these pregnancy stories!!

stay positive mums! xx

[Shawty81593]

Awww Bella Congrats Gurl :)
I'm So Happy For You ...
I'm Glad U Got to See Ur Baby :)

[Kate037]

I had lost a baby a couple years  back without even knowing I was pregnant until I was in energy for heavy bleeding and intolerable pain. But now I'm 38+ 3 with a big healthy boy and I can't believe we've made it this far. I tear up just thinking about it. I was told I'd never conceive naturally, and then told I'd miscarry, and then told I'd deliver preterm, but here we are! My point is not even doctors always know what they are talking about, a lot of it is educated guessing and preparing you for the worst just in case.

I'm so so happy for you, enjoy every minute of this, even though symptoms make it difficult to be happy all the time, stay as positive as you are right now and you'll be great :)

[Della12]

Hahaha congrats Hun ;))) glad for you :) all the best . Yes I'm super nervous and have a huge fear. Because I had a previous miscarriage 2010 had no symptoms,didn't even know until first u/s at 7w and then had light pink spotting at 7.5w and no hb. With this pregnancy I'm now 8w5d and symptoms comes and goes ,I don't have it daily . It varies,sometimes nausea during night,constant peeing, light to moderate tender breasts/nipples,super tired afternoons, gas now and then ,bloated sometimes and light period like cramps. So it's weird lol. My worry is that I had light brownish yellowish spotting round about my period time last week,like a drop here and there when i wipe for second time and not every time . It stopped ,now I just have some weird fluttery bubbly feeling in my uterus area . I'm going for first u/s this Friday. I told myself I don't wana look at the monitor lol doc must just tell me good or bad . Aww i pray and hope daily for a miracle xxxxxx good luck to you . Btw how far are you now?  

[distortedmind89]

Aw congrats honey, i felt the exact same way as you did as do a lot of people and think we all panic, but tis lovely seeing a post like this though :) Positivity is great!

[DominiqueN573]

I'm glad to hear from anyone! And the reason they are popular is BC they have been doing this for a long time.. most already have their babies or are about 2.. :) congratulations I'm so happy for you! Its hard not to worry sometimes.. but seeing you're little one def helps! How far along are you?

[ashleypaige06]

I love this post! You perfectly described how ive felt for weeks now, and actually just last night I had a nightmare that I miscarried. I go in for my first ultrasound next week, at 12 weeks. Thanks for sharing! :)

[snrich7420]

Congrats that is awesome to hear that baby is good!!!