too much moving?

[marajean21]

I guess I have it in my head something is going to happen around 30/32wks. I don't know if it's going to be early labor, admitted for something or just something in general, but I can't stop thinking these boys are gna try to make a break for it very early. I think because of this, I've been nesting early and I cleaned my boys' room 2 days ago, going through every single toy, sanitizing it, putting the baby ones in seperate bins to go in my room, rearranging everything in that room(including a long and heavy dresser, and wiping down the walls. Yesterday I tackled most of my room where I already have 6 18gal bins full of clothes from my first 2 that are actually about as heavy as a reg 27" tv each and moved those, moved the bed, moved a computer desk, all 4 toy bins and the smaller things like car seats and bouncers and such. Today I decided I'm just sick of the living room layout and want the dining room table(very solid-seats 4 then a bench so technically 6 ppl) in the kitchen even though there's really no room for it bc whoever made this house thought a washer and dryer needed to be placed in the kitchen, taking up half the room, which I'd have to move the stove and fridge for then move the couch tv stand and tv to make the living room look right..is all this too much strain for the babies or am I ok as long as I continue to take breaks as needed? I really wanna get this done but had a nightmare of being in a doc office full of mice and was told I was going into labor but they won't stop it, so just go home to where I lost a baby and now I'm kind of worried that's somehow going to come true and at my next appt they won't find a heartbeat for one of the babies..

[marajean21]

I guess I may just be paranoid bc they didn't do the 1hr glucose test right and I have to wait til june 5th to talk to the doc about it bc the nurse was so rude then a couple days later my sugar was so low I was shaking and was close to fainting..but yeah I guess I'll take it easy even though it's bugging me bc I haven't moved since I posted and am finally feeling pressure under my rib, so one is deff ok, just gotta try to find where the other is hiding

[Helenk38]

I think you should take it easy. You're moving way too many heavy stuffs in one day. That could also be the reason why you haven't feel the babies move much, all the works you're doing in the house non stop keep rocking them back to sleep.

[marajean21]

I don't know if they do or not, I'm hoping they do after I'm asleep. There's been so much stress lately including a letter from my step father who abused me physically, emotionally, sexually, and mentally. It's led me to start smoking cigs again but my insurance won't cover anything to stop again because I don't smoke enough..I feel so guilty about it but I've tried everything to try and stop again and it's just not happening. I guess that could be why I think something is gna go wrong. I just don't know if I can keep moving all this furniture without a possible problem or if I should wait til my bf gets home from work(as irritable as he's gna be) and try to get him to do it all..

[mrssandefur]

OH OK LOL! I guess I missed the part about the dream lol sorry. So they start moving again when you go.to bed?
Its probably just you becoming anxious then. I always have a silent fear that my son will be born with a deformity or mental/development problem :( of course I also smoked marijuana and drank a lot before finding out I was a little over two.months pregnant, so.I think that's where thar fear comes from

[marajean21]

Noo in the dream it was infested, with mice lol and I only lost one baby in the dream. Everything's right on track in the real world. But I've also been having dreams of almost losing my younger son in a twister or tornado and it's always just him, never my oldest so those had me thinking it related to the 'storms' in my life til the miscarriage thing, which is making me think something bad is going to happen to one of the twins and my mind is just using my younger son so I can relate better. I do have a gut instinct something isn't quite right but the transmission went in our car, so we have to wait a few weeks for enough money to get a van and be mobile again. I'm just trying to ignore I haven't felt the slightest movement in 4 days, saying to myself they're just hiding or sleeping til I sleep then are active bc I'm not having cramps, spotting, or anything but a feeling to go off of.

[mrssandefur]

Wait your Dr office has mice?!
And were you Prego with triplets and lost one??

Maybe you should find a new OB and if you're seriously concerned something will happen make an appointment ASAP. Trust me you wouldn't be the first one, a mothers instinct is usually the best thing to go by.