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[ChelseaCat]

How do I show my bf that I need him? I don't feel like I should have to ask for my feet, back, or stomach to be rubbed. I don't feel like I should have to ask for help around the house. But If I don't ask then it won't be done. And If I do ask he kinda gets an attitude and doesn't do it correctly or he'll expect something in return. What do I do? I'll be 38 weeks tomorrow and I can't wait for this to be over

[Roxxxy915]

Im going thru the same thing. Im 26wks w.baby #3. He'll see me do lots of things in the house walking bck & forth doing something , & he doesnt even bother to ask u need help????!!!! Hes always watching tv or on his fone its freakinggg annoying & overwhelming.... Hes a lazy butt. & doesnt undetstand @all. When isay something to him he gets an attitiude & we start arguing. Did imention im also up&dwn w.thee other kidsss. Ifeel like ive been a failure to myself & my kids w.havn a husband/father like that.

[Pinkslip]

Maybe just tell him what you wrote on here haha I had to do that with my husband... I'd ask for a shoulder massage and he'd expect one in return. Finally I just said you know what, I'm tired and sore and just need a fricken massage okay! Hahha. It worked and he hasn't said anything since. I give him massages though without him asking me to so I think it makes him a little more compliant when I actually ask for one.

[Faiththerese93]

Im going through the same thing with my partner I get he works hard as well but it's like I'm carrying your baby and I'm hurting to, I'm only 24 weeks don't know what to do either and really can't handle his poo for another 3 months or when bub comes! Hopefully this will help me out to  :)