yes seriously. I'm not saying that men shouldn't go out sometimes.... Men need their own friends too, but If his woman is not allowed to go pick him up??? I say why??? and 3 am? time to grow up. He has You girl!!! that should be way better. You don't have to settle.
TOTALLY HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU!! Something is up my X did this crap to me all the time! Never came home never spent time with me i paid all the bills and i made the choice I wasnt going to live like a single person with a sometimes roommate! I packed my crap and left! It was the best decision ever! i met a wonderful guy and now we're married! He never leaves me home alone we spend time together when we can and arent working he gave up his party days once we got married! and hes always been there for me!
I dont know how or why women put up with men who that junk! It's redicioulus all of my X's sisters did it for their husbands and when we went out of town to visit them he wanted to go party and get high with them all while they left us women at home to do whatever! after 4 yrs of it I was beyond frustrated!
don't get me wrong... men can get drunk & it is fine (sometimes) boys will be boys.. but if you CAN"T be included on what is going on, the is something wrong.
it all seems shady, like he was hiding something from you. What was it that you couldn't pick him up?? I don't mean to get you all worked up. I'm sorry. My ex was a lying, cheating, selfish *******. I hope this is not the case for you.
my now husband is so wonderful. I know it is just not that the newness hasn't worn off, as we have been together for a few years. Men CAN be wonderful. You don't deserve to be treated like this. Tell him to grow up or get out! You deserve better. sorr, I guess I shouldn't be telling you what to do. it just a shame, there you are up & worried, pregnant... Wtf? What is he hiding?
he woke up and told me. sounded pretty lame. and he is a hung over bird today and i have not a ounce of pity for him
Sounds like he got alil carried away.. id be waking him up and demanding to hear everything that happened.. Thats what i did when my DB was going out all the time