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update on my post yesterday

So I finally "unleashed" on bf yesterday night. And it went so much better than I anticipated. Bc of the tight budget -which his family is a huge cause of- he is moving away from the family business and looking for another job so he can afford to run outbwhen i say i want a frozen coke or something. He explained to me he didnt realize chinese food was such a big deal to me and he thought I knew he was teasing when he brought it up. The hookah he said he was kicking himself for all day at work for buying and has a friend who is going to pay him for it and take it from the house. He also said next time I disagree with a purchase speak up then, that just bc its not my paycheck doesnt mean it isnt our money. He came home and we went out to get more yarn for me to make some orders, and he walked my pace. He said to hold his hand and when I needed hin to slow down just squeeze his hand and hed slow down. He was shaking and upset and after we talked he seemed relieved and back to his normal self, even played with baby in ny tummy again. I think partly bc he stood up to his friend after so long of just going with him.

Im so glad i had all your encouragement and understanding yesterday, mommas :) thank you
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Thanks ladies :) I hope it can stay this way too. And I crochet baby clothes and headbands.
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That's great lady happy to hear!
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6430881 tn?1385405084
Im so glad you got a positive reaction from him :)
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7055678 tn?1394847153
I'm glad for his change and happy you spoke up. I hope the lines of communication stay open for year's to come.
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6588814 tn?1391015002
Yay! Its so nice to hear some positive stories on here!
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Awesome job hun that is great .. I'm soo glad it went well nd he understands nd was able to explain reason for his actions ... Yarn ?? Wht do u make ??
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