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[piggypiggy]

this may be a dumb form. but my mom has told me im going on the depo shot, im very upset. i hard it makes you gain over 10 pounds and gives you headahcs and can even make acne worse. im also worried about having a pap smear, do you think i will have to have one for this?

[nickieb85]

I suggest the nuvaring! Works great and you don't have to worry about taking a pill every day at the same time.

[piggypiggy]

i read side effects of the depo and i think they out way the good things. so i realy dont want it.

[MaryAK]

Yes, definitely make sure you speak your mind and your opinions to the doctor even if she is in the room.  She needs to hear you; it's your body and from what I am reading on this forum, sounds like the majority of the folks replying say the depo shot is terrible.

[martikadragoon]

Sounds like you have a plan!!! :) Good luck! and make sure to remember to be SAFE

[piggypiggy]

thank you for all the help. i will talk to the doctor about it.
and i will tell my doctor straght out i dont want the shot.

and really i dont want my mom in the room for any it, she is so strubbon

[JoyRenee]

Depending on your age, by law your mom cannot be in the room if you ask to be alone with the doctor. And your doctor has something called "doctor-patient confidentiality" and HIPPA laws that prevent him from even discussing anything with your mom without your permission.

She cannot force you to do anything. It is your body. I also understand, from the mother perspective, how concerned she is for you. Ultimately what she wants is best. I don't agree with her tactics and threats, but I do understand her heart.