You gave him a scone chance and he is clearly blowing it....sorry :( i would leave him for reals this time. Don fall for the empty apologies and promises. I've been there and it does not change.
I'd say kick him to the curb. He's obviously not grown up enough to be a father or with you .. he shouldn't be taking a trip the weekend of your baby shower anyways.
Is that really the kinda father figure you want for your child? I'd kick his *** out! You and your baby deserve so much better!
It's ok to not be with the father of your child. I broke up with my boyfriend about 6 or 7 months into my pregnancy because we fought all the time since I had moved back home with my mom and away from him. He clearly wasn't and still isn't ready to take responsibility as I recently found out he's still drinking heavily, doing drugs, and not working as much as he should. When it comes down to it, it's what's best for the little muffin and whether or not you'd want him or her to be exposed to that.
You clearly aren't happy with him. Only u cn tell if he's sincere on his apologies or not. What made me mad is the going to meet the ******* part. Ur here having his baby going through so much and he's not even there to support u? I would ignore him and not pay attention to him. And when he comes to you kick him in the backside and throw him out. You clearly deserve better honey!
Dump him for real this time.
You need to follow through. If he realizes you're serious, who knows, he might come crawling back and actually change. But you need to kick him to the curb first and make him regret his actions. And if he doesn't change, don't give in
I hate when they act more like animals than men... I agree with the other ladies here, you should break up with him and stick to it... I've had 2 children with guys like this and I remember feeling attached and that it was important to stay with the father of my baby, then I realized that they weren't worth the trouble and after a while I didn't care about the guy, I only cared about my children and I am still happy to be rid of those pos pigs:)