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Blowjobs tmi ? Sorry

Ever since I got pregnant I stopped giving my hubby **'s because I feel like it's going to hurt the baby or I don't want the baby feeling what I'm doing is wrong my am I the only one ? That feel like sex and **'s are weird bcz there's a baby inside of you . I get really sexually frustrated and when we have sex he always finishes to fast even tho I want more it's like now he's the problem bcz I feel like I can keep going forever
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Having sex while pregnant can be tough sometimes... but u must remember that this was how your baby was done, so theres nothing dirty or wrong about it. I just feel way too uncomfortable now at 35 weeks..
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How do you feel like ******** would hurt the baby but sex wouldn't? They are both totally fine and won't hurt the baby! I feel weird about swallowing it but I've never wanted to swallow it so nothings changed lol
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Lol girl have sex &stop Trippn
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8567320 tn?1399128845
You can have sex girl u gotta please you an your husband the baby is fine :-) u can have oral sex as well..
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I've actually red that swallowing can bring the baby and daddy closer.
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^^that's weird lol
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Yea^^^That's wierd af!!!
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Lmao Amanda where did you hear that!? Lol
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It was something I red lol. Im always getting pregnancy emails and I believe it was on one of them
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I wish I was able to do more with my husband. I tried to give him oral yesterday and gagged myself so bad I had to sit in the bathroom and sip water and thought for sure I was gonna be sick.
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This is too funny lol
Oral sex is perfectly fine,  for both of you. Sex as well. I've never heard the sperm thing bringing them closer, very weird lol but my hubby always says, babe its full of protein its good for the baby.  I used to swallow but now I spit it back on his "u know" lol idk why lol I think its funny I guess
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1123420 tn?1350561158
I've never been one for giving bjs.  Not my thing. But me and my bf have had sex every day pretty much and I'm 35 weeks. It's now starting to get uncomfortable and hurt afterwards but I get through it bc I want it. Semen is said to help soften the cervix later on in pregnancy.  I feel kinda disgusted and weirded out about the comment on bringing baby and daddy closer lol idk all about that. Lol
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7673423 tn?1400599131
The only thing it would bring me closer to is the toilet :] ewww.
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8765505 tn?1399764936
In stitches reading this and the comments lol
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8765540 tn?1407588917
I didnt use to be that into giving oral. But now I am thats so weird. Never been more into it.
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7128540 tn?1399083912
Lol, as long as Dr says it's ok for you to have sex there won't be any harm to baby- that goes for oral as well. He's perfectly well protected in there. :)
^^^ Bringing dad and baby closer does sound odd. I'm not really into swallowing,  I've never tried it but just thinking of it seems wierd. But I do suggest really doing some foreplay before going on to the actual intercourse... Is there something that turns you on that you could try before hand so your both satisfied?
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My man always jokes around and says "if you swallow it will make the baby look more like me" haha he has to do better than that to convince me.
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Lol lol ^^^
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I dnt see no problem wiht having sex im more into nw than ever lol nt so much the bjs but i try once in a while i tell him let me know before u "u know" lol so i can move lol
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Sex and oral is just fine girl! And LOL bringing them closer!? Sooo odd. Lol. I'm not one for oral but I'm sure if sex is okay than so is bjs.
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8239127 tn?1397619162
I love and.enjoy giving my bf blowjobs and we have sex all the timee ,its okay have sexx
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Lol best topic in the last 7 months.
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I love pleasing my bf .. i love sex and giving him bjs.. lol but now its hard for me to swallow it. I think being pregnant has made me more horny than before lol. Even he says i want more than he can give sometimes.. lol
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8227972 tn?1414913484
cant stop laughing i almost peed on myself just reading this.. yes oral and sex is ok while
pregnant.. in fact for me, its the best thing time to do it coz u want it so bad and you can do it unlimited(without worrying of anything) coz before when i was taking bc pills, i sometimes dont have the libido to do it or get
worried that i might have forgotten to take it.. enjoy it hun.. if you dont wanna do a head then just tell him you cant so he can improvise..
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