who had these signs bb4 their missd period?:/

[Bayybii2010]

im due for my period n 4 days. Past week or more i have had lower light belly cramps right above the pubic line, past about 3-4 days my breaste have grown n become very sore, i have only felt sick a few times n got sick once. 2 days ago  i became constipated and about  3-4 days ago gas startd.

[Bayybii2010]

yes i dnt have to finacially care for these kids but i care for them as a parent wuld. And i  get paid to do this as well, so yes im finacially able. I thnk i had a miscarriage but ppl are makn me thnk i culd be prego. But u are all acting like because im 18 finacially im not ready, YOU DNT NO ME! For all u no im some hi maintance, rich chick living in a huge 3 story house in cali or sum crap, u dnt no me or my life style. So if ne one wuld further like to continue this convo msg me, im on my mobile and tired of going thru all these cmnts

[renee82]

Bayybii I very happy for you that you feel confident that you can do this.  I know what you mean on you feel like a mother already to the children that you care for. I did the same thing I was the oldest of 4 girls at 15 years old, my mother was a single mother so that left me with my sister all the time. Al we are trying to do is just make sure you know you options and the difference between being the living babysitter and being a full time mother. Having the feeling and caring for your own child is a lot different that caring for children that you did not give birth too. Do you ever think that once you do have your own child that you will want to care for sisters children? Have you discussed this situation with your sister and how does she feel about actually helping you out with your child, I know the thought of family helping out is all great, a and if thats the case for you I am happy for you  but if it turns the other way, and sometimes there are family member want the help from you but they dont want to do the same for you. Everyone here is just really trying to look out for you. My advice to you would be is just to really live life and enjoy every bit of it while you can and IF you are or get pregnant just let it happen but just done press the issue, make sure no matter what situation you are in right now, make sure by the time the baby is here that you can take care of the baby all on your own, just in case these people  who say that they will help you  turn there backs on you, We just want the best for you just really know what you are getting into and try not to jump down people throat because you didnt like what they had to say Good Luck

[Tasha505]

WHoah! There's a lot of comments on here...

I had all those symptoms when I was pregnant the first time!!! I say take a pregnancy test...

[mami1323]

Again, no one is saying that Bayybii, you are perfectly capable of taking care of a child.  However, it's a lot harder when you are trying to finish school and work when you have a baby then if you get established first and then have a baby.  You and your boyfriend aren't even together anymore, so wouldn't you rather share your experience with a man who is stable in your life, that you live with and have committed yourself to?  Wouldn't you like to go on vacations and explore every bit of your life before having a child and once you do, you won't be able to these things so freely?  It's not about ability to care for a child but it does help to have your life in place before bringing a baby along for that ride.  That's all, it's nothing to get upset over.  You can do what you want when you want to, just be a little bit more open minded that's all.  

[ammanda]

Bayybii- No one said that you couldn't mother a child just because are 18. Any one could mother a child if they wanted to.. But it takes more then experience, or love.  And just because your friend did it, doesn't mean you can. And tinytoes is right, you cant stop someone from doing what they want, all you can do is try to help them, which is what we did.  And you couldn't handle it.. so please no not try and play the victim card.  We didn't do or say anything hurtful.. We just offered the truth.. The truth hurts sometimes.  Yea no ones life and pregnancy is the same, but its all hard.  And do you have a job?  no you said your sister and her husband would take of it.. Yea I would help my sister to if she needed it.  But they shouldn't have to help you, they shouldn't be put in the position, just cause you couldn't wait until you settled down with a job and a husband.

[Bayybii2010]

tinytoes-thanks so much for having my back. All dem ladies think cus wow they got experience or w hatever that everyones life n pregnancy will be the same. My friend was 18 when she had her kid, 19 now. From like a week outta the hospital she wrkd, we graduated high school together. She stil wrks, her n the father arent together but share responisbilties, so juss because ppl got a kid they dnt bno how sumone elses life will be. So i wish theyd stop pretty much sayn bc im 18 i cnt mother a child, or care for on finacially