whose baby?...

[newmommy31]

Okay, so I am 33 weeks 0 days pregnant and my due date is May 23. Im not sure who her dad is because I was with 2 different guys in two weeks. The first guy was the week of August 23-27th (not sure of the exact date.) and the second was September 1st. If the due date is accurate it would be #2 i think?
I didnt use protection with either, but #1 pulled out and #2 didnt...
but what I'm worried about is what if the doctor isnt exactly right?
Its been really hard because I had to tell both, and found out when I was about 4 weeks, so they have both not been supportive at all. I never had a regular period so i couldnt go by that either.

[kai0912]

yes they sell dna kits in some drug stores you have to buy the kit follow instrucions then send it in to the company and theres a fee for processing everything.... one brand i believe is called identi-gene and i believe they charge sonething like $150 for processing... never aused one so dont know how accurate they are ..but you may need to get two kits one for each guy.... and it cant be done until baby is born of course because you need her dna

[Jennyjoelogan]

I would say #2. Im 32weeks and 5days and my conception date was sept. 4.. And yes theres a dna test u can buy at walgreens its a swab..

[sesteacher4]

I am also 33 weeks today and I am pretty sure that DH and I conceived around the first of September. My best bet would be on guy #2 seeing as you guys hooked up around that time and he didn't pull out.

[newmommy31]

I didnt realize there were some you can buy at strores, im def. gonna look into that, thanks!

[newmommy31]

II didnt expect either to help with buying things or anything, just be at the very least supportive. She has everything she needs and I am the one who bought everything...

[Liluykj]

By the dates it can be tricky. Your best bet is to perform a paternity test. If you do not want to make a big thing about it, there are some paternity test sold at your local pharmacies. I do not know how accurate they are, but look into it to see if it will help. Good luck!

[brit0585]

Dna is the only way to tell and you can't expect either to help out since they don't know if its theirs.

[Factorymomma]

The doctor isn't going to be exact.  They call it an estimated due date for a reason.  The baby measurements can vary throughout pregnancy.  Like right now I'm 31wks but my baby is measuring 33.  Since you're irregular it also makes it a bit harder.  You'll just have to get a dna test at birth.