Fathers can be a good fathers without being in relationship with the mother. You pick how u want to be and let ur son's dad and ur new baby dad to be involve in kids life. U can be single if that's what u want and feel the best with but don't get in relationship with anyone just for the sake of children coz it won't work long term. Maybe it sounds selfish but think about urself and what relationship do u want and what will make u happy. Coz when u happy ur children will be happy too but if u r not happy kids will pick up on that.
Single..if your sons father has really changed an wants to be with you that wont change just because you dont get together right now an the boyfriend sounds like he might be waiting on you to end it,if he wanted to be with you he wouldnt say things like you should leave because i dont want you crying over me,he would say what can i do to make things better.good luckers!
Mayb you shld b single until afta ur bby & see do ur son father really mean evrythng he is sayn......& ur bf is prolly jus hurt nd dnt knw hw to xpress his self to you
The grass always looks greener on the otherside concentrate on bringing a healthy baby in the world.