A few weeks ago I posted reguarding my husband going from ALWAYS wanting to have sex to Never. To make a long story short He was a very sexual man, always grabbing, groping, wanting sex. Awhile back (several weeks) he just changed, it was not gradual at all, in the past 6 weeks we have had sex 2 times, both times great for me but the last time he didnt finish which is not like him at all. He works out of town mon-fri never in the same area so every weekend when we would see each other we would be all over one another, during the week when he was gone we would text naughty things and pictures to each other. We have been together for almost 8 yrs. Anyway I dont know what to feel, I have talked to him about it and he blows up, says things like "is that all that matters to you is sex" etc. No its not but just dont understand why the sudden change. I am approaching 34 and he is 36. I am very open minded and very sexual and have always had great sex. For awhile I was on the pill and i had no drive, Husband wanted me to get off of it so i did and now told me to go back on it so I dont bother him so much with sex. Isnt this weird??? I have a lot of male friends and they cant believe it, most men complain about married life and the lack of sex and mine is complaining just the opposit. This past week I have been dreaming about other men, I do not like this and it scares me. This is wrong and i feel very guilty, but i cant help what I dream. He is coming home tonight and I plan on talking to him about these dreams and telling him i dont know what they mean if anything but i shouldnt be dreaming about other men i have dated or been with, i should be dreaming about him. Any advice PLEASE to help me with my talk with him tonight. Am I over reacting? thanks