oh honey . . . RED FLAG. He hurt you because you were annoying. Think about that. Think about relationships as they progress and that we all annoy our partners from time to time. He's a bad bad catch because he thought it was okay to hurt you to show you that you were bothering him. NO WAY. You are not overreacting. Run from this just as fast as you can!!!!!
I can't tell what you're talking about. You were looking at him, then looking away. Then he squeezed your leg, which really hurt, and he countered with well most people would say sooner that it hurt.
I'm sorry, I can't envision this scenario at all.
Can you be more clear?