Oh... what a big baby he is!
Give him his time to sulk and get over it.
I talked to my husband over the weekend. Put it off for a while because I couldn't get the nerve up to speak with him lol
Long story short, he didn't take it too well. Apparently i'm being selfish and a b*tch and a lot of other things(the jerk). I've kind of just left him alone to take everything in as he is still upset about it and won't even talk to me right now. I don't know what to do. I did not expect a temper tantrum!
I don't know if I should try and talk to him again about everything or just wait for him to fully calm down or what i should do. He's basically been ignoring me since I told him??
not at all. this is all new to me and when i start reading the different things i get over excited and when i write i loose my train of thought. but for real i have all the respect in the world for woman. i hate seeing them get abused or used. its not right. everyone has the right to live an equal life.
Thank you for clarifying that. :-) I was starting to think you were a man who thought women should give in once in awhile to satisfy their man. lol.
i aploagize. i shouldve specified. before i joined i have researched for a lot of different things to better myself. while researching and reading other peoples problems and comments (not just on here) i couldnt beleave how men were being so about them selves, and was treating them. i do agree that if she dont like it, the man should understand and stop it. i used to be the same way. i would pressure my girl into doing what i wanted. it was all bout me. but as i got older and matured more, i realize that its not all about me, and if i wanted to be w/ this wounderful girl i need to change my ways.
It's not one of those fantasies for this couple. He is hurting her and she's told him how much she doesn't like it and he doesn't care. Bottom line is he's only in it for himself and doesn't want to hear her complain. He wants his way or no way. It's much different than what you are describing. I truly loving and caring man wouldn't want to hurt their SO and wouldn't push them to do what they want them to do against their will.
And I'm just curious.....what did you mean by how you can't believe how other relationships are? All these women are in relationships with men who obviously care about their wifes/gf's wants and needs. If the woman doesn't like anal then the man should understand. If that's all he wants then he needs to find someone else who wants it too. Any (real) man would just be happy getting it any way he can if he really loves the one he's with.