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Confused and Hurt
I've been in this relationship for over a year with this guy and things were really good in the begining but then things started to get kind of rocky. He started calling me names and other things but I cant seem to just let him go I tried when I left the country but he got a hold of me and I gave in so I came back and I actually ran away form my house for him to be with him more. But now things his mom does not agree with me and my parents neither. I've been through so much with this guy and I love him but I feel like I want to let go but when I try to he comes back. What do I do???? Please Help...
Along with the advise Judy said, STOP CONTACT with him. Do not call, do not email do not see/message, anything. And if he tries to contact you do not answer his calls erase his messages without reading them, if he comes to your house do not answer the door, have someone else do it and have them tell him you do not want to be contacted by him. If you are alone just don't answer and if he won't go away call someone and tell them he is harassing you. Tell him that you do not want to be contacted by him and that the relationship is over.
You can't be pulled to go back to him if you don't speak or hear from him so do this. also keep in mind all the reasons why you broke it off and all the reasons he is not a good match for you.
You can't be pulled to go back to him if you don't speak or hear from him so do this. also keep in mind all the reasons why you broke it off and all the reasons he is not a good match for you.
It's time to call home, speak with your mother or father, whomever you feel comfortable with APOLOGIZE, for your unexceptable behavior, tell them you would like to come back home and you while you are living under there roof, you will abide by their rules.
2) Running away w/b/f to move into his parents home is just another mouth to feel
for them and your b/f does not have the financial means to be on his own less
bringing home another person. You need to get out of there, because you
don't belong there (sorry for being brutally honest, but it's time to go).
3) Break up with the guy: Tell your not happy in this relationship and you no longer want
to be in a committed relationship and want to try to make things work at home.
4) You need to leave right away and not look back. I hope you will learn a lesson
from this experience and never disrespect your parents or take for granted
your home. Good luck...Judy
relationship.
2) Running away w/b/f to move into his parents home is just another mouth to feel
for them and your b/f does not have the financial means to be on his own less
bringing home another person. You need to get out of there, because you
don't belong there (sorry for being brutally honest, but it's time to go).
3) Break up with the guy: Tell your not happy in this relationship and you no longer want
to be in a committed relationship and want to try to make things work at home.
4) You need to leave right away and not look back. I hope you will learn a lesson
from this experience and never disrespect your parents or take for granted
your home. Good luck...Judy
relationship.
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