I am around 20, in the same school as my gf. We knew each other through this school. Before we start dating, she would request to go to toilet during lessons, then she would talk to me for 15 mins before going back. She would also sometime try her luck and wait on a path that i would take to go to my classroom. Sometimes, she would also buy snacks for me during my lesson when i request to go toilet and see her. On the other hand , i got a copy of her timetable, i will find her whenever possible, walk her to her classroom etc. However, when we start dating, things start to change, She isn't as willing to see me as before, she no longer take initiative to look for me, when i look for her, she will be with her friends. The worst part is she spent quite some time with a guy friend too. There was once when i woke up an hour earlier to go school to find her, when we were talking half way, the guy friend reached school too, she told me to wait and then went to find him and talk to him, after like waiting for 10 mins plus or so, she said nothing and left, i caught up with her and asked her where she going, she said she's going to look for her groups of friend. i know she do no have feeling towards the guy, he is just her best friend and she said she loves me a lot, and i wan to continue this relationship, but the way she act she does not makes me think she likes me. She don't even approach me when she saw me, not even to say a hi or what. Also, one time i went to find her and she told me she wants to be alone and asked me to leave her alone, even after i told her" but i don't want to be alone" she just told me to find my friends. Recently, we had an hour after school together, while wandering around the school(deciding what to do) she saw a friend. After talking to the friend for a few minutes, she told me that she is going to accompany her to study, she don't wan her to be alone, so she left me alone instead. Things like this happens quite often, and it really upset me a lot.i have talked to her about this, and she said its one of her bad habit that she tends to spend a lot time with her friend. however, if u like someone, shouldn't u wan to see him/her more than anyone else? shouldn't it be natural to look for him/her to spend more time with him/her?i don't really feel like talking to her about this anymore, because if she changed, she would be unwillingly changed, being forced to, the time spent together would not be nice anyway. And i want her to get what she want, if she wants her friends, then i hope she gets what she want. I really love her a lot and according to her, she love me a lot too, i really hope this relationship to work out, but the relationship isn't going well as for now, and i don't think one day she will suddenly wake up and realise her mistake and turn into a new leaf, what should i do?