Happy

[Awssdxcvvgt]

Wanna thanks folks for the comments
It has opened my eyes to new things
For the first time in 30 years I feel happy things are finally looking up, I broke it off with that my kids father and I feel so much better. Question why is he so mad at me ??
He only wants oral sex
Only comes down on the weekends
So he telling me he loves me ???
He sad 2014 things will change
Ugh
So now I put him on the spot he wants to marry me what I need help ???
Might I add he is 46 years old I thought older men wiser ????!!

[Londres70]

To add: he is living with his mother @46?  Pfff......yes, indeed, get rid of him.  What does he really have to offer?  Sounds like a mother's child, a.k.a. mama's boy.

Get the child support, let him see his children and leave at that.

[Londres70]

Absolutely agree with Chima.

Older doesn't necessarily make anyone wiser.  You hope older folks would know and do better, but that isn't always the case.

[Chima7]

Don't kid yourself. The only reason, the ONLY reason why he said he would change now is because you told him you were done with him. It is 100% guaranteed that if you told him ok that you take him back, it will be all of the same crap all over again. YOU made the RIGHT choice by breaking up with him. This nonsense has gone on 6 years too long.  He had SIX YEARS to make things better and start making you and a family life a priority, but he CHOSE to not do that until you said you were done.  No way, do not take him back. Do not listen to his nonsense. That's all it is, is nonsense. There is no reason at this point to believe a word he says.  People will say ANYTHING when they are called out on their BS and their back is against the wall and he is clearly doing that now.  For your own sanity, to protect yourself and your feelings, don't fall for it. Otherwise, I'm telling you straight up, you will regret it.

Let him see the kids if he wants, but as far as the relationship with you is concerned, it's over. End of story. No re-do's anymore. That's it.

[ROSYouralright]

Does he have another family during the week?

[Awssdxcvvgt]

I sounds crazy but we can't work it out I think we need to chalk it up and just let him visit the kids
I am happy since I called him and sad It's OVER
I fill free and happy I wasted six years thinking he was going to move in with me or take me to family dinners

[Awssdxcvvgt]

My mistake I am 30 years old
I been with him off and on for six years

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, Sexual preference is not a sign of his love or lack of love for you and oral sex is the only issue it can be worked out, so if you love him and he loves you then get married.  Just to clarify that youve been with him for 30 years?

[Awssdxcvvgt]

So dam stressful