Should I stay or go?

[antskillen]

Ok so here s the story. I was with a girl for about 7 months and everything was going well. Then one day, I accidentally lied to her about telling people that she was at a party. She claimed that my problem is that I tell people my business and I have a "big mouth" and that caused all this too. After two days of tension, I said that we should take a break because of all that was going on.
A week went by and she would send me little messages (mainly hateful but I would be mature about it) and she sent me other messages about how her wisdom teeth surgery went and how miserable she was while I was out having fun doing my own thing.
After a week of no contact, it seemed like nothing has changed and her and I argued and she went from having no trust in me to saying that we should "reset" and I was like "fine whatever" and ended from there.
She would be jealous later on that night that I was talking highly to a friend of mine about how cool she is and such.
The next day, one of her friends tells me that she is "done with me" and she "had a great time" not talking to me during the week that we had off (even though she would send me those messages at 1-2am).
Is she playing a game? Is she really done? Should I keep with no contact? Should I ditch her?

[fantima_r]

why should you ditch her.??..you have to compromise...just sit together and talk about it...you can carry on this relationship if you wanna merry her...

[specialmom]

Well, I'm not sure 'ditch her' is the right way to phrase it.  It sounds like she is feeling this may not be worth it either.  I'd have a heart to heart.  Ask her if she is ready to move on or not.  Don't take a friends word for it.  But it does sound like the two of you have drama and issues that make this a relationship with problems. Don't know if that can or will improve.  So, talk to her and sort it out.  good luck