Need to know whats going on ,,my bf of 3 years has never really been the talkative typ,,he has allways been guiet even most of the time when we sit together there is no talk,,he has never really been effectionet ,,its like he dose not want to show love tawords me,,he seems to be cold hearted ,I suffer BPD,and this lack of emotion and effection from him is really bothering me,,i cant talk to him about it ,i tried many times and he just gets mad , and tells me that its my BPD making me think like this,,so i dont say anything else to him,,then i go back and forth in my head woundering if it is myBPD..I dont know if anyone will understand what im saying,,but if anyone dose ,,please some advise would be great,,AND if anyone wants to ask me more about this situation i would be happy to answer,,,i just need to know whats going on,,n what to do