just enjoy your happiness,just because your parents marriage didnt work,dont mean your wont,you have a loving man whom you love back,just keep it real and enjoy.
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We have different religious belives... i just feel i know everything about him and there is nothing else New... i feel so BAD having this fealing... my parent got divorced and i feel like maybe i will too. and YEs this is a big decition to make whether he is or not the one... but there is no one else in my mind or heart but him... I dont have guy friends or interact with guys cause i feel thats not right... so the only guy i talk too is my BF. like i sayd in another post ive never dated anyone but my bf... i wount Not have the strenght to just let go of him. i HAVE NO Reason!!! see he never gives me a reason So i have No reason Y i feel like this. idk what to do.
Hm. Well, I never think it is a great thing when we really question if we are about to marry the right one. No one can tell you if he is the right one or not----------- that is your call. Your heart, gut and head should all agree that this is the right decision.
I look at marriage as a whole package. I look at it from the "business side"-------- this includes such thngs as if we share the same goals, the same religious faith, the same ideas about family, the same ideas on financial issues (how we are going to spend our money), same ideas on how we will structure our household, if we want kids, etc. All of that must be discussed and issues talked about before marriage or . . . if you have a major difference in the "business" end of marriage and can't compromise---------- the relationship could very well fall apart. People often ignore these things and say love will get you through . . . it usually doesn't. It is good to be as similar in values as possible or able to verbalize where you differ and where each of you will compromise.
The second part of marriage is the love stuff. Important too. Must be attracted to them, like their personality most of the time, feel that those warm and fuzzy feelings for them.
Third, the gut. This is what screams at you that something is wrong or tells you to relax, it is okay. It is just something I say to not ignore either way as sometimes if the business side of marriage and the love side of marriage aren't matching up----------- it is your gut that tells you and it can also make you feel better when you have a moment of doubt about things as well.
Is pre marriage counseling something you could do? I think every couple should do it because it gets the questions that are important out in the open and gets couples to start discussing them. I learned a lot about my husband to be in premarital counseling.
But you do worry me as you also posted earlier about wondering what it is like to go on a first date.
Anyway, you must look within to find out if this marriage is the right way to go or not. Good luck
If you love him, there shouldn't be a question as to whether there is someone out there for you. My advice is don't get married unless you are 100% sure this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with . . .