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How to tell if she is lying about being pregnant

Hi,
I recently had a one night stand with an older lady, she is between 46-50 years old. We were both pretty drunk but I used a condom and after the sex remember it was full of my semen and then I flushed it down the toilet. Now this woman came off as a bit of a fantasist, telling me she got messages direct from celebrities on Twitter, claiming she dreamed she would meet somebody in the same job as me (Not that it's very exciting). Fair enough, no problem, it was nice to meet her and I said my goodbyes without giving her my number, although I did tell her where I worked.
Two weeks later she phones me at work randomly for a chat, asking if I'll go back to the club we met. I falsely tell her I have a girlfriend to try and put her off the scent. Then I get a text two weeks later saying she is having morning sickness and thinks she may be pregnant. She says something must have gone wrong and can't take a Home Pregnancy Test as she has a rare blood condition. Is this likely? She says her period is late then mentions that she now has only one tube and doesn't know how this 'happened'. She claims she will go to the doctor in a couple of weeks for a blood test. Then she tells me her boyfriend is coming back from abroad and she is beinf forced to take him back as he has had two heart attacks without her. Even though he is in his 30s.
Is she trying to rope me in or is there a chance she could be telling the truth?
Thanks for your help.
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To be honest, I think I've had it with her nonsense. She keeps stringing me along. I think I'm going to take Judy246's advice and run for the hills with the words, "contact me in 7 months and we can do a paternity test." I've made it clear I am in a relationship and have started pressing that I want to attend a meeting with her doctor and her should there be a "positive" response. She has been totally silent, hence the leave it all to her comments. I doubt she's going to admit to it so perhaps it's best to cut my losses.
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Ut oh. Not good.

Pregnancy would be a concern, but actually that is the least of your worries with this one -IMO

Ps. I highly doubt she is pregnant. She most likely has powdered eggs at that age.
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She came back and said she's been to the doctors and is having a blood test done on Tuesday, by the nurse, and it has to go to the hospital. And she's started saying just leave it to her from now on, and she won't implicate me financially or otherwise. I believe this is all bs and there is no real problem but I would still like a definite answer.
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Yeap...that' the menopause age, where the period actually stop and eggs are not very good any more.  Maybe she is confusing menopause with pregnancy....just a thought also...Judy
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If this woman is 46-50 yrs old, she may be starting menopause, und it might just be why she has missed her periods, plus the craziness u describe from her can also be a factor towards this. Just a thought...
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Okay, so I asked her if we could come along to see the doctor with her and she said thanks for the offer but she will manage. I've tried the not being rude route, playing along and trying to talk her round and she seems a bit more pleasant so we will see. Although she added she's missed her second period. Its been 39 days since we had sex. Should hear by the weekend. Fingers crossed.
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