To be honest, I think I've had it with her nonsense. She keeps stringing me along. I think I'm going to take Judy246's advice and run for the hills with the words, "contact me in 7 months and we can do a paternity test." I've made it clear I am in a relationship and have started pressing that I want to attend a meeting with her doctor and her should there be a "positive" response. She has been totally silent, hence the leave it all to her comments. I doubt she's going to admit to it so perhaps it's best to cut my losses.
Ut oh. Not good.
Pregnancy would be a concern, but actually that is the least of your worries with this one -IMO
Ps. I highly doubt she is pregnant. She most likely has powdered eggs at that age.
She came back and said she's been to the doctors and is having a blood test done on Tuesday, by the nurse, and it has to go to the hospital. And she's started saying just leave it to her from now on, and she won't implicate me financially or otherwise. I believe this is all bs and there is no real problem but I would still like a definite answer.
Yeap...that' the menopause age, where the period actually stop and eggs are not very good any more. Maybe she is confusing menopause with pregnancy....just a thought also...Judy
If this woman is 46-50 yrs old, she may be starting menopause, und it might just be why she has missed her periods, plus the craziness u describe from her can also be a factor towards this. Just a thought...
Okay, so I asked her if we could come along to see the doctor with her and she said thanks for the offer but she will manage. I've tried the not being rude route, playing along and trying to talk her round and she seems a bit more pleasant so we will see. Although she added she's missed her second period. Its been 39 days since we had sex. Should hear by the weekend. Fingers crossed.