Aa
so hurt :(
my heart is just hurting so bad after all the dedication on this guy im carrying his child also n i really thought he was trying to do me and the baby good but he started changing i knew something was up now he just went his way like where nothing
yeah ur right its just gonna take so time specially when im carrying not only his precious daughter that he did this to her mother n her also he was filling up my head i guess on how he was gone be here n take care of us n not only for a week he shipped us back over my moms which is hell n outta that week left us loney of two days anyway its just hurts me more for my innocent baby girl idc for what he done to me its sad n i hope karma cause onuo him bad
hun don't let yourself stress over this sorry excuse for a man. put a smile on your face, don't try to contact him, go out with friends looking super hot, and show him and everyone else you are happy. He obviously told you the same day you found out good news about your baby's gender to be a dbag and hurt you in the worst way he could. y else would he tell you that day instead of being happy and celebrating with you?!?! he is scared and pathetic. He WON, because you are letting him see that he hurt you and what he was doing was taking the attention from you and baby and putting it on himself like an immature little POS!! trust me, let him see what he is missing, not how bad he is hurting you. be strong, I know it is hard. Something very similar happened to me with my first child, except I let him see he was hurting me and let him see I missed him, I was 16 and scared to be alone, but the day I said F YOU DUDE and turned around my additude from sad to happy that he is gone he noticed and wanted me back. it was stupid. He was simply playing with my heart, so I took a little time to play with his, I started dating other guys who were happy to be with me and take on his responsibilities and it hurt him ten times worse than he hurt me. it felt so good to flip the script on him like that. but you know what deep down I was still trying to fix my own hurt that he left me with by dragging him into his child's life, and all it did was hurt me more. After a short period of time of me being happy he started claiming my daughter wasn't his, he was proven wrong, his first time alone with her he abused her. it was horrible to go through and I felt guilty for not just walking away all together and just being happy, just me and baby. now im with a good guy who takes care of us both and has blessed me with my second child. it took a lot for me to move on and learn from my mistakes, im sorry this is so long but I hope it makes you realize that dwelling over what he has done to you isn't making things better, so SMILE cause you are beautiful and deserve better. don't text him or call him or give him the time of day. he gave up not you.
ugh yes its so f up that all i could think about n its just heavy on my mind the day i found out the best news i also found out the worst
don't stress yourself my bf at first was so inconsiderate and also selfish so I gave up on him and realized ill be happy alone with my baby and I didn't have time for someone who makes excuses I told him I was done with how he acts and stop talking to him then he turned around and called me saying how he wants to me with me and the baby but I set rules that he has to follow to be with me and the baby some boys just need to grow up some cone around some don't just worry about you and pray about it you have a wonderful baby growing inside you a boy isn't worth your tears it seems like he is trying to push you away on purpose believe me he will be back then it will be your decision
Well you can't change it now. It was good hat he told you, but it doesn't make him a man, a real man would take care of the family he has helped to form. You will find someone who is a real man and will treat you and your daughter right just give it time, no need to rush. Some guys don't know how to grow up I guess. Like I said go ahead a grieve your loss, your ex bf and the idea of being a family, unless he has a totals turn around and proves himself over at least a years span I wouldn't take him back. Your ideal picture is going to change to reality. Lean on your family and friends and do forgive him for what he has done, forgiving doesn't mean you approve of his actions it just means letting go so you aren't stressing about him and what he did to, about how much you invested in him and how he hurt you. Ip what's done is done and you got to try to move on, grieve yes but the move on,
Admitting to cheating doesn't make you a man. Staying true and faithful and being there for you and your baby, now that is a man. Every couple argues and disagrees, but not every guy will just bail like that on their child. He is not a man, he is a little boy and has a lot of growing up to do. I'm sorry hun, I know how bad it hurts to be cheated on and everything, especially being pregnant its 10 times harder. But I wouldn't even give him the time of day anymore.
yeah thank u i just cant believe it after so much heart n love i put n gave him all i was hoping for n looking forward to be being a family n he coundint do that cause he so worried bout other things but what matters the most ugh its on my heart heavy n then claims he being a man by telling me he cheated gross it wasnt over a week i was in the place with him and back out
Hey girl, Im sorry this happened to you. There is nothing any of us can say to cheer you up. Unfortunately your ex bf was a jerk, a horrible excuse for a "man". Guys who do crap like that are really stupid. If he wanted to be young and have fun he should have used better protect to keep from becoming a father. He doesn't know what he is missing. That whole being young, partying thing is so overrated. He will figure that out someday hopefully. As for you sweetie keep your head up. You are wise enough to know how you should be treated. Which is great because a lot of women don't think they should be treated with respect. Now you just got to grieve, pick up the pieces, forgive him, and move on for you and your daughter. You have a blessing found in your little girl, cherish that. If you need o talk inbox me.
yes its the fact he cheated on me also n possibily gave me n my child something from anothet girl n that he young n wanna have fun like im not young n gotta go through all this now n no he hasnt talked or said anything to me
how old is he? by the amount of posts you have about him, i feel like you're probably better off. he's sounds way to immature and not invested in your or your baby's future. he rather be doing other things and try to make his pregnant gf hustle for some extra cash? and you guys JUST moved in together? get your stuff, nd you go stay with your parents or some friends. your baby needs better than a boy like that. because that's exactly what he is. you're jealous of all the women on here who have MEN to take care of them and spoil them, that's what you deserve to have, so go out there and find a MAN and get rid of your lil BOY
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