I'm so,confused and I feel like I'm hurt

[Bigdaddym]

So,I been,dating my bf for two,years I ask,him out cause he really like me he does Every thing to me like he so,obsessed but as my old past came along my ex back,in,the 2012 I dated him for 5 months he broke my heart n so I now have mixed feeling because like omgg like I broke up with my bf for something he did but I forgave him but every time I'm with him I think of my ex n Every time I chill with my ex I just think of nothing else but when I'm by my self.  Wow it like if I had to decide or something I know my bf loves me so much but I also still have feeling for my ex . My ex says your my family.  He wanted to take me to see his mom like omggg knowing that he knows I'm taken.  He wants me to leave my bf but I can't like I'm confused I can't leave someone who really loves me I know how it hurts to end a relationship because my ex hurt me like that too.  My ex says he really loves me n my parents really like him they want me to be with him cause he works n also has a dream n my bf he doesn't work n he stay back in 12 he doesn't know what.to do when he grow up but does everything n gives me everything

[Bigdaddym]

Thank you so much so helping I'm glad you was there to help I appreciate it

[specialmom]

I'm sorry you are hurting.  I really think the thing to do is to take a break from both of these men.  Be on your own and sort some things out.  You don't seem to really have super strong feelings for the current boyfriend hon.  Don't let him waste his time just because it is hard for you to be alone, you know?  Take some time for yourself to think about what you REALLY want.  good luck

[Bigdaddym]

My ex n I broke up because he did told me he was tired like of what I ask myself.  I love him to much tbh I had him in my dairy.  I did cry I beg for him to take me back but as I try to move on I been feeling Well so then I ask my current boyfriend out. Yeah I know we argue I say ima leave him but I don't really.  But my current bf been there for me alot . But then my ex just there like making my mind so confused.  Tbh I feel like I'm the one whose hurt.  I needed advice a friend someone to tell am I right or wrong.  I can't love two person.  I don't wanna hurt anyone I just wanna be happy even if I lost my friends because of my current bf n I know my ex broke my heart but I feel like so broken

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Ex's often come sniffing around when the old girlfriend moves on.  They have some kind of ego thing.  Often, it peters right back out so please do not fall for this.  

I think you need to give your current boyfriend up though.  It sounds like you started dating too quickly and weren't totally over your last relationship.  You then aren't fully into this guy you are with if someone else is still on your mind.  

Don't be with him just because you need to be with a man hon.  Take some time to be on your own.  

Why did you and your ex break up?