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[immaculate]

for couple months now i.ve been tryin 2 get a girlfriend but it seems like i'm not getting anywhere.everytime i begin talkin 2 some1 either they stop talking to me after a couple of days or day 1 is as far as i get,i want a woman in my life but it seems i cant seem 2 attract woman,it ain that im given up it's just that everyone seems to be doing better than me when it come to gettin woman,ive tried allot but as soon as i think im gettin it i dont,the rest of my life seem 2 be ok but im stuck at being single.ladies any advice?..i need you all 2 be honest

[KATE535]

I fell for a man in work who oozed with confidence, charisma and success. If anything, I was the shy one when I got the opportunity to chat to him. WOW, his whole Persona (which I just described) really turned me on !!!! Luckily for me, although I didn't know it at the time, he was interested in me too, and we have been together for a year and a half since. So I echo what the others said, don't play the Desperado, play Mr Cool instead, don't try too hard and the women will notice you for it. Even we have weaknesses...... for the 'Diet Coke' type man (TV Commercial) ;-)

[Judy246]

Have self confidence and a positive personality and people in general will navigate to you! So, don't worry or rush into anything out of the feeling of desperation....be yourself and it will happen naturally.  Judy

[teko]

Yeah! BIG turnoff to run across a guy who is trying too hard. We, tend to like the ones that are more elusive.

[vmvnpv]

I couldn't agree more than what megochick and judy said.  These are all qualities I looked for in a guy when I was dating.  They are also qualities guys look for in a woman when dating.  Good luck!

[Judy246]

Hi...I agree with megochick...desperation is unattractive and I believe in fate.  It will happen when you least expect it. Also, be yourself, in places where you can meet people. Believe it or not, I met the man I'm with in a Church function and he is not only a good man, but physically "gorgeous" and we have so much in common....Good Luck!

[megochick101]

Sorry ahead of time but I'm going to be brutally honest. It sounds like your are turning towards desperation. That is NOT an attractive quality in a man. Confidence is key. if you're not confident FAKE IT! Don't slouch in the corner of the room, go around and just talk to people, join in the party and just try and enjoy yourself. Stop worrying about the women and concentrate on having fun. Once your relaxed and enjoying yourself, girls will see this and they'll come to you. And please if you are talking to a woman, LISTEN TO HER, don't just let your mind wander and take in how hot she looks lol actually participate in the conversation and be interested in her. It is really a turn off if your talking to a guy and his eyes keep wandering down lol Look people in the eyes when you talk to them so they know your mind is on the conversation. And make contact with the girl, touch her arm during the conversation, smile, whatever. She'll get the point. Just don't go over the top and grap her butt lol

Main thing, be confident, know you are worthy of a good woman, and the right one will come along. Hope this helps :)