Large penis

[Chrissie0713]

Is it possible to get past a "to large penis" problem? I just started seeing a man who is so patient and gentle  ( not an issue with not being turned on or needing lubrication) but he feels like he's going to go through my insides. Then he feels bad I feel bad - we both want it and just want to know if it   Is something I can push through and then  be ok or will I get used to it??????

[TTinKKerBBell]

This isn't about a 'large' penis and a 'tight' vagina.  It's absolutely true that a vagina will stretch to accommodate a large penis.  A penis doesn't come in a larger girth than the circumference of a baby.

This is something quite different and has to do with internal organs rather than penis size or vagina size.  I don't know about the poster but in my own situation as I mentioned my Husband is a very large man AND His penis is large.  He played football in highschool and college and He is built for that role.  I, on the other hand, am smaller than small.  No matter how much my vagina might stretch (and it does, I've delivered 3 ChildDren) there is still only so much room inside my body for my 'other' organs.  In our situation, it was a matter that His large penis 'crowded' my other organs.  My Husband has always been most gentle with me but with only so much room within my body in the first place, I was always left feeling discomfort, a feeling of having my insides bruised and this discomfort would last for a good while after making love.  Not my vagina, but my other organs.  With time, this situation greatly improved, although I will say, He is still gentle, otherwise, it would still be most uncomfortable for me.  (no rough sex for us!!)

beyondfrustrated2:  otherwise, You are correct, a large penis IS "pleasurable"

[beyondfrustrated2]

My apologies, I didn't pick up on the fact that she was describing pain. I thought she was just describing the feeling of him deep deep inside her. Which to me, can be pleasurable.  You are right, Specialmom, painful sex would certainly never be a good thing.

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Well, with other men you have not had the problem, right?  so, it isn't a chronic situation you face but a new one that is related to the size of this particular man?  I would continue to try to see if this improves.  That area of the body is made to stretch (we have babies!) and could adapt to his larger size.  Most likely will.  If it does not, you'll need to consider if you two are compatible or not.  Take your time, use lubrication and do set boundaries so that the pain isn't to much.

Beyondfrustrated, I'm not sure painful sex is a good problem to have.  

luck to the poster.

[beyondfrustrated2]

This sounds like a good problem to have!  

[TTinKKerBBell]

My Husband and I had this same issue.  He is as You describe Your Partner "very gentle" so that was not our 'problem'.  My husband is a big man (240pounds) and I am very tiny (92pounds).  After these many years He is still 'large' but over the years I have 'adjusted' and our lovemaking is no longer 'uncomfortable' for me  So - yes, I think You can 'push through' given more time.  He will continue to be gentle and You both will continue to be patient and You will eventually 'adjust' to accommadate His size.  I foresee Awesome sex ahead for the two of You
Regards
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