well if you have feelings for that man, let it all out! it might lead to nice relationship
Thank you everyone for your help. I have decided momagain59 is right.
I will send him a thank you card and see what happens. If I just put something along the lines of give me a ring if you ever fancy a coffee and a chat on it and wait and see. Thanks mucho momagain59.
Can you just let me know, whether you think I am totally reading something into nothing or if by what I have put about our time together and the things he said to me that there is a possibility of a connection.
Thanks again!!
Will keep you posted.
JaniceRuth
What a great idea momagain59!!!!!!!!!!!! WOW! That IS good. JaniceRuth, that way you won't feel like a "stalker" and then you can see if he'll call you (if he's interested) without you feeling like you were the one to make the move. Maybe that's the little encouragement he needs :) Good luck!
You could always send him a thank you note (at his work place) with your # included if he would like to call sometime.
I think this is far from a fatal attraction scenario. =)
Have you thought of writing him and telling him what you are feeling?
I honestly do not see any harm in swinging by and talking to him. Seeing that you guys shared many conversations and shared personal information (which if it were a "professional" session then he would not have shared his personal life with you) then he would probably expect that you may pop by and talk to him. Surely he's not expecting you to just vanish from his life, right?
Well, at least you have made me laugh! I just don't think I could do it - he might think I am stalking him or worse a bunny boiler!!!
what else would there be to do whether it be a co-worker, professional counselor, pastor, police officer, neighbor, friend...???
if you like someone, whether you had previously talked w/ him for hours or only had one conversation online, you could tell them. no law against it, i promise
I cannot do that as he was a professional working with me in a care setting. He actually is a nurse. Help
just from everything you describe, i would tell you what i would do is call him up or meet with him and i would tell him how i felt about him and his company. not too too much, but just enough bait to see if he was just waiting to bite back :)