My girlfriend lying about being pregnant

[hernad]

Hi, this feels kind-of like a childish question, but its eating me up so i would love your help in this matter please. I have recently met this girl and am very attracted to her despite the fact that she has some serious personality disorder issues and keep making up stories. She is attention seeking to an abnormal level.  I have pulled back from her recently but have not broken off the relatioship.  She has become very insecure and is claiming pregnancy. Now, i know 1st reaction is "shes lying you idoit!"   But just the fact of knowing it COULD be true is killing me. She said was on the pill but now I am wondering.  I am a genuine guy and she is quite a few years younger than me but I am very attracted to her.  

I am considering discreetely swabbing a pregnance test stick against the juices in her area!!! and then excusing myself to the bathroom. I need to know if the hormone is present in the juices produced down below!  I know this sounds mad but I have tried all other avenues to get a positive or negative result. She is wrecking my head!!  I know you all will advise that i should run away from her quickly but the truth is that I am quite lonely and find her ery beautiful in many ways.

[hernad]

I wish it was a joke. To be honest, I do have issues on one level (emotions etc....) and on another level, I am stable. Successful computer engineer having done well etc... and due to my success I am almost semi retired. My greatest strenght if that I know myself but yes, when one is lonely - one tends to take all opportunities for affection etc.......

Not ideal but - life could be a lot worse!  Bottom line is that I have really learned much from your words ( THAT GOES FOR ALL U GUYS) and even discovered a way to do a pregnancy test by stealth. Not a bed weeks work. By the way she sent me a text today saying she just did a test herself which was pregnant and I replied that I already knew! She wanted to know how? and I just told her  that when an equation has many aspects and those aspect are all put thru my processor, there was only 1 conclusion.  Reckon she will leeave me alone now. I HOPE - HELP!!!!!!!!

Just hope the last few nights haven't produced anything!  So. one last question girls. ANYONE WANT A FREE VACATION IN TENERIFE WITH A REALLY CUTE RICH MAN???!!! (Despite the humour, all this is actually true and you girls have done this man a good service)

[GRose]

Wow, that was very fast, even more reason to believe jenshim's theory on this all being a joke.

[jenstam]

Mami, I hear ya...just playing along at this point. I thought it was pretty miraculous myself but oh well ;)

[mami1323]

Wow that was fast.  You miraculously realized she was a money hungry beast overnight.  I guess we really can work wonders with our words ladies.

[jenstam]

Good choice! You are doing the right thing. Don't let her sweet talk you! Now, who will you take to Tenerife??

[hernad]

Hey Guys

Drama over. She is getting too demanding financially and is becoming arrogant and rude so today, I am dumping her.  Will do it gently as there is no point in creating unneccassary hurt and I have lost feelings for her quite all of a sudden. Reallt want to thank you all as I have really been educated by some of your comments.  Guess, at the end of the day, I am simply not prepared to pay for love, you can't buy it or even a pretence of it.  Have decided that 2 weeks in Tenerife with her behaviour woul just be too much to take despite her charms!!!!!!!