Please dont cheat

[j7653]

This is not a question, more of a post that I would like to put out there for any people that are cheating or contemplating cheating.  Here is what your significant other could experience:

1. Intense jealousy and fights
2. Major depression
3. Anxiety attacks
4. Psychotherapy
5. Medication (zoloft - still on it / xanax sometimes)
6. Loss of income due to missed work
7. Alienation from friends
8. Couples therapy ($$$)
9. Mediator ($$$)
10. Attorneys ($$$$)
11. Loss of time with my daughter (every other week now)
12. Alimony
13. Child support
14. Second mortgage (to pay off her side of the house)

AND I DIDNT CHEAT.  SHE DID!

[mami1323]

We know...lol.

[j7653]

Medhelp is pushing me to thank you for your comments.  But you already know that I am thankful for your support.

[mami1323]

Hi j, did you just find out that she was cheating?  I know you had suspected it but wasn't sure.  I'm sorry and yes you are correct, I'm a victim of an affair and it was a very difficult recovery, still now 2 years later I feel the effects.  

[specialmom]

No doubt, cheating on your significant other causes great pain.  May you find peace.  good luck