and this is why we always fight

[sisosig]

this is the earliest he's ever asked me this but sometime before i get home i have to tell him what i want to do tonight or we dont do anything. here we are it's tuesday i have to work tomorrow. i have to help my mom cook for newyears starting preporation tomorrow and he wants to know what i want to do at tonight and right now it is 2:44 in the afternoon. he says you busy? i say nope. he ways oo what u want to do tonight. (i usually tell him i don't know) today i played it smart. i said what time is it? he said 2:30.  i said where am i? he said work i guess. i said what do i tell you everyday when you ask me that same question? he says i won't ask anymore.

WHAT A BABY!!!!

i'm just so tired of sounding like a broken record and quite frankly i'd rather just go to bed then hang out with an attitude like that.

[RockRose]

Why in the world are you with him?  You can't stand this guy,  every thing he does and says drive you up the wall - to the point of throwing a bottle of expensive cologne across the room at him.  

I think it's completely normal to plan what you will do tonight,  by mid afternoon.  I think almost everyone knows,  by mid-afternoon,  what they will be doing that evening,  if they are a couple.  At least a rough sketch - going out to dinner,  then home to hang out.  Something like that.

I don't know why you spend any time with a man who irritates you so much you can't stand to be around him or even think about him.

[gayle55]

He sounds way too dependent, could be a real drag in a long-term relationship.

[mami1323]

It sounds to me like you are getting tired of him.  He's getting on your nerves.  I think you are already stepping out of this relationship in your mind.  

[Lonelymom]

Just tell him to surprise you. Tell him to pick what yall do and surprise you when you get home.