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She said she's NOT preg. Is she lying?
In early July my friend and I had sexual intercourse with no protection (we were both very drunk and I honestly don't even remember if we had sex at night, but we did briefly in the morning).
She said she took a birth control pill (not sure which one) I believe 3-5 days later if I remember correctly.
It's about 2 months and 1 week later and I'm so worried she's pregnant, even though she tells me she's NOT. I don't know why I keep thinking about it, but I have OCD about these types of things and I can't stop thinking about it because I definitely DON'T want anything to come out of this incident. I text her every few weeks to ask her and she is now getting really annoyed at me and telling me to leave her alone because I keep asking her if everything's fine and she says yes.
Do you think she is telling me the truth? Any insight would be appreciated, thanks.
She said she took a birth control pill (not sure which one) I believe 3-5 days later if I remember correctly.
It's about 2 months and 1 week later and I'm so worried she's pregnant, even though she tells me she's NOT. I don't know why I keep thinking about it, but I have OCD about these types of things and I can't stop thinking about it because I definitely DON'T want anything to come out of this incident. I text her every few weeks to ask her and she is now getting really annoyed at me and telling me to leave her alone because I keep asking her if everything's fine and she says yes.
Do you think she is telling me the truth? Any insight would be appreciated, thanks.
Will agree with Tink and thatquietgirl.
Sounds like you really didn't know the girl well although you state that she was a friend and you both sound VERY young.
You definitely need some professional help for your OCD. If you are already seeking help for this, you need to see your therapist a bit more.
It is unfortunate you put yourself in this position being irresponsible.
Your statement...."She said she took a birth control pill (not sure which one) I believe 3-5 days later if I remember correctly." Well, if she took an EC, why then are you worried? EC however needs to be taken within a CERTAIN timeframe AFTER the encounter......this will depend on which EC she used.
This girl told you she isn't pregnant. Let her be and QUIT making demands that she takes a pregnancy test in front of you......that is TOTALLY ridiculous.
If drinking does this to you, i.e. causes you to LOOSE all judgement, then you shouldn't be drinking.
Your statement...."Because I heard of a friend of a friend that found out she was pregs. 3 months after. She has diabetes or something and went to her doctor and the doctor told her she was pregs., but she didn't know it until then (3 months later)."......Do you BELIEVE everything you hear?
Just MOVE on from this situation.
Sounds like you really didn't know the girl well although you state that she was a friend and you both sound VERY young.
You definitely need some professional help for your OCD. If you are already seeking help for this, you need to see your therapist a bit more.
It is unfortunate you put yourself in this position being irresponsible.
Your statement...."She said she took a birth control pill (not sure which one) I believe 3-5 days later if I remember correctly." Well, if she took an EC, why then are you worried? EC however needs to be taken within a CERTAIN timeframe AFTER the encounter......this will depend on which EC she used.
This girl told you she isn't pregnant. Let her be and QUIT making demands that she takes a pregnancy test in front of you......that is TOTALLY ridiculous.
If drinking does this to you, i.e. causes you to LOOSE all judgement, then you shouldn't be drinking.
Your statement...."Because I heard of a friend of a friend that found out she was pregs. 3 months after. She has diabetes or something and went to her doctor and the doctor told her she was pregs., but she didn't know it until then (3 months later)."......Do you BELIEVE everything you hear?
Just MOVE on from this situation.
You should probably seek some therapy. It sounds like OCD-like behavior is ruling your life if you're that worried about her being pregnant or checking the oven that many times every single time you leave the house. You need to at least get some coping mechanisms to learn to overcome this. Doesn't mean meds but it does mean talking to someone about your ticks and learning how to better deal with this. I tell you this because I could see it getting trying on your relationships of any sort as they progress.
As everyone said, your friend would have come to you if she was pregnant.
As everyone said, your friend would have come to you if she was pregnant.
If You're going to fret so much - how 'bout not having sex with someone You don't want to make a baby with?? It's really that easy!! Problem solved!!
I do worry about everything. I check the oven like 5 times before I leave the house.
Thank you for your input.
Thank you for your input.
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