My boyfriend and I moved in together last year and thinks were great initially. I recently found out I have genital herpes and this has taken a great toll on our sexual relationship, and thus our relationship in general. (for the record, I didnt cheat or anything, it just finally decided to show itself.) I feel like he hasn't been supportive of me, that he keeps trying to initiate sex when he knows I am unable to due to outbreaks, and then gets upset with me when I turn him down. I have finally told him that I am just unhappy with our relationship, and we need to do something to get back on track, because we have hit a disconnect somewhere and if it keeps going like this, we aren't going to work out. I have told him exactly what I need from him. He has just shut down. we have gone for 2 days now without a word to each other, and the night I told him I was unhappy, he decided to go out with his friends after, telling me "that I shouldnt worry about him leaving me".
Basically my issue is that something needs to change, and I either feel like he isnt taking this seriously, or he just doesn't care, or know how to fix it. I need some help to figure out if we should seek counseling, or any ideas as to how we can reconnect, or if I should just walk away at this point. I know he loves me but then if he did, i believe he should be considerably more proactive in fixing our issues than sitting on the couch watching Sharkweek. Any input helps.