Should a wife meet her husband's sexual needs?

Question

gokuangel · Answer

I see this subject keep coming i voted yes you should but i do agree to a certain degree at least from i have read! I think you at least try new things and experiment unless of course its something totally wierded out that just creeps you out!! But it should be just  about you and your partner and satisfying each each other NO1 else!! I know for a fact if my dh makes a crazy comment hes just kidding its not for reals! I thinks thats the line you know if they are JK and if they are not!

heatherlynn22 · Answer

so he AND his FATHER could watch???? that's slightly disturbed. my dh has fantasies about me and another woman but.....nothing that includes his dad. i'd have to be completely weirded out if he ever said anything like that. actually i'm not sure i'd ever be able to look at him the same if he ever said he wanted me to do something sexual so his dad could watch to. that is some biazarre father son bonding....

1Moonbeam · Answer

Yes, within reason.  I am essentially non-orgasmic, but have spent 50 years making sure my husband(s) needs and even wants were met. and they believe I am the sexiest thing that ever came along.  But my first husband's fantasy was that I should have an affair with another woman so he and his father could watch.  I drew the line.  That was not the reason for the divorce, his infidelity was,  Needs and wants are two different things.

adgal · Answer

I am in agreement with the others...only if it something you are comfortable with...I personally can't answer this poll this way.  Sorry.

RockRose · Answer

I'm wondering what the basis for this question is. It's way too broad - is there a reason you're asking other people's opinions, butterfly? If you are interested in a specific issue, it might be more helpful to state what you are talking about, rather than this very vague question.

Jennifer1987 · Answer

depends on what you ask and what she is interested in doing....... simple as....... If a person doesn't want to do something they dont have to.

SixStringer · Answer

The question infers that the wife is not as iinterested in sex as her husband.  Is this normally the case?  In an ideal situation, it is nice if the husband and wife are both getting their needs met on a continuing basis.  Sometimes one has more interest in sex than the other spouse.  Men often have fetishes or special interests beyond p-v intercourse where they are keen on breasts, or butt, or legs, or anal, or hand job, or oral, and so on, depending upon the individual.  Sex is often a major reason that men marry.  So, if the wife is not as interested, rather than let a marriage go down hill, it is good if she can accomodate her husband and hopefully get something out of it also, depending upon what his "needs" are.

Vance2335 · Answer

I think everyone is right on with what they have said.

For example my wife and I tried anal, she hated it and it's not something we are going to do again, but she tried. She had me try a different position and I hated it but I tried.

And unless 1 partner is asking for sex like 3 times a day everyday then I see no reason for the husband and wife to keep each other happy in bed.

heatherlynn22 · Answer

i feel it should be a mutual thing. like mami said if the wife is comfortable with doing whatever then go for it. or vice a versa. but i believe the man should satisfy the wife as the wife should satisfy the husband.

GRose · Answer

I agree with mami, it all depends. I am in this situation only it is reversed, I am the one whos needs are not being met so I understand how it is to feel sexually neglected. It ***** :(

babypooh · Answer

Only if the wife is comfortable trying whatever the husband wishes to try. Nothing should be forced :)

mami1323 · Answer

It all depends on what those needs are?  If it is a threesome and you are all for it, go for it, if you're not interested in it then you shouldn't feel obligated.  Same as anal sex, a lot of men are into it, some women like it, some don't.  The husband should respect his wife's decisions and not force her to do something she isn't comfortable with.  Now if he just wants a little spicing up with roll play or toys or something like that, and you feel ok with it, then go for it.  It all depends on what you are referring to.